Saturday, 30 March 2024

“You refused to do same for me” – Ayo Makun teases sister for gifting husband new car

 

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Nigerian comedian Ayo Makun, who is chronicling his brother-in-law's efforts in his sister's life, hilariously pulls his sister Bukky Ray after she receives a brand-new automobile as a gift from her husband.

He warned his sister to avoid him when she went back to Nigeria in a post on his Instagram page, saying that despite his contributions to her life, he got nothing in return.


The comedian's sarcastic remarks came after his sister gave her husband an automobile as a 50th birthday present.

Ayo Makun also reminisced about how his brother-in-law had relocated his sister to the US, established her as his wife and mother of their daughter, supported her education, and helped her become a qualified nurse.

“Love is such a wonderful thing. My amiable inlaw turned brother made some great sacrifices in relocating my younger sister @bukkyray to the US. Got her established as his wife and mother of their beautiful daughter Zaye. Encouraged and supported her to further her studies, too. Today, this trained nurse gifted her husband a Benz of inestimable value for his 50th birthday. So proud of you, sister.

Ayo Makun teases sister for gifting husband new car

“Whatever you have refused to do for me on my own 50th after contributing to your life in Nigeria, I know my capable in-law will do it when I turn 60.

“For now, just avoid me when you come to Nigeria. Hisssssssss… Congratulations, inlaw, enjoy this setup from your wife. You go pay tire. Come and ask some of us who collected big gifts from women”.

Lateef Adedimeji on how his wife, Mo Bimpe changed him

 On her birthday, famous Nollywood actor Lateef Adedimeji honors his wife Mo Bimpe for helping to mold him into the man he is today.

Lateef wrote a long post on his Instagram page thanking Mo Bimpe for everything as she celebrates her birthday. He acknowledged the rarity of having someone like her in a turbulent environment and thanked her for changing him.

Prior to meeting his wife, Lateef Adedimeji stated that he was self-assured and goal-oriented, but her presence gave his life a new perspective.

He went on to say how much he was grateful to have Mo Bimpe in his life and how she had made everything easier.



Lateef Adedimeji praises wife, Mo Bimpe on her birthday, reveals how she changed him



“Rahmah, Not many individuals are as fortunate as I am to have found someone like you in this chaotic world. Thanks to you, I am the person I am today.

“I am confident, and goal-driven, I have so much confidence in myself but you have forced me to examine myself closely and develop an affection for the image of myself that I see in the mirror. I am goal-driven, but you gave me more purpose and determination to reach those goals; you are my God-sent.

“I am a lucky child and God brought me YOU RAHMAH ADEBIMPE another lucky charm. Which of the blessings of Allah will I deny?
Thank you for making life so easy, my number one critic, my check and Balance, my joy, and my all. Happy birthday my love, long life and prosperity in good health. I love you so much, too much baby

“Thank you for helping me grow, thank you for making me believe in the beautiful things of life, and thank you for being who you are. Happy birthday my love. Here’s to many more years of happiness together. To forever with you my Queen”.

Thursday, 28 March 2024

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Wednesday, 27 March 2024

Actor Browny Igboegwu meets his 4-year-old daughter for the first time since her birth after previously being unable to due to immigration constraints.

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Actor Browny Igboegwu meets his 4-year-old daughter for the first time since her birth after previously being unable to due to immigration constraints.

Actress Sharon Ooja announces she is married

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Actress Sharon Ooja announces she is married

US-based Nigerian Professor, Uju Anya, gets engaged to her lesbian partner


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US-based Nigerian Professor, Uju Anya, gets engaged to her lesbian partner

Tuesday, 26 March 2024

Mike Bamiloye sends message to men with contentious wives

Evangelist Mike Bamiloye, a Nigerian priest, has given a message to men who have troubled marriages.

He wrote a long message on his Instagram page saying that a woman has disobeyed the Lord's instruction to respect her husband and be obedient to him when she chooses to be haughty, arrogant, and unsubmissive to him.

He said that although spiritual justice may appear before people, a woman who lives in constant disobedience to God's rules cannot possibly make it to heaven.

He said that although spiritual justice may appear before people, a woman who lives in constant disobedience to God's rules cannot possibly make it to heaven.

He cautioned males in his lecture to hold fast to the Lord, pointing out that he has witnessed women entirely change, submit to men, and even become useful in his ministry. He continued by saying that after many years of hardships in a tumultuous marriage, he has witnessed such women blossom into royal gems in the hands of their husbands.

NOW, WHEN A WOMAN LIVES LIKE THIS, BE ON THE LORD SIDE. SUCH IS DEFINITELY WORKING FOR THE DEVIL, no matter how dedicated she may be to the service of the Lord. Even some Pastors’ wives are in this category. They believe their husbands are hooked and caged; they believe the man would never do anything to tarnish the name of the Lord or allow any scandal to their long-term ministry, SO HE DARE NOT CRY OUT, therefore, they maltreat the men at home and call the shot at home while the man calls the shot in the church. Some ministers of God are crying inside their hearts while they smile at their church congregations.

THERE IS NO WAY A WOMAN WHO LIVES IN Perpetual DISOBEDIENCE TO THE LAWS OF GOD CAN MAKE HEAVEN, HOWEVER SPIRITUAL SHE MAY LOOK BEFORE PEOPLE.

What is my last word to the men who are in the Cage of Contentious Women, KEEP HOLDING ON IN THE LORD. I have seen such women becoming completely transformed and highly submissive to the man and becoming helpful in his ministry. I have seen such women becoming a royal gem in the hand of her husband, after a long time of struggles in a CONTENTIOUS marriage. GOD CAN DO IT. Let the woman become your prayer point. Keep loving her. Keep playing your own spiritual roles of a Godly man: love her, cherish and honor her, and keep praying for her. So that you don’t lose your soul.

May the Lord heal such a marriage.

MikeBamiloye”.

Mike Bamiloye sends message to men with contentious women

A year back, Evangelist Mike Bamiloye issued a stern warning to men who maltreat their wives.

Gospel singer, Theophilus Sunday and his fiancee legally tie the knot (Photos)

Theophilus Sunday, a Nigerian gospel artist, and Ashley White, a Jamaican fiancée, are officially wed as of right now.

On Tuesday night,the gospel performer had declared his engagement to Ashley White, his Jamaican girlfriend. Before their wedding, the couple made their pre-wedding photo shoot public.The pair had secretly wed in January at the Federal Marriage Registry in Abuja.


Remember how Ossai Ovie Success, the media assistant to Delta State Governor, responded to his pre-wedding photo session, which he harshly criticized? He said that it is customarily forbidden and unethical in Christianity to hold the waist of a woman who is not one's spouse.

He said that Theophilus was spreading immorality to the world by publishing the picture, pointing out that the singer is a Minister of God. He reiterated that it was improper in every way, instructing him to look at her waist, observe how she was positioned, and consider what made him a man in order to comprehend what he was saying.

Ashley White, his fiancée, was also the target of criticism from the fashion police about her pre-wedding photo session attire.

The fashion police deemed her outfit unfit for the wife of a gospel singer and criticized her for it. The Twitter user stated that the dress was not decent for the wife of a man of God.

Theophilus Sunday Civil wedding

For gospel singers this year, wedding bells appear to be falling from the sky. When Moses Bliss and his wife sealed the knot in a three-part ceremony last month, social media came to a standstill. With a court wedding in Abuja, the pair initially made their union official. A traditional Ghanaian marriage followed this, and shortly after that, an extravagant white wedding took place.

“God gave me double for my trouble” - Ooni’s wife, Olori Tobi breaks silence following the birth of her twins, reveal their gender (Photos)

 

Olori Tobi Phillips, one of the wives of the Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi has made her first public statement following the birth of her twins.

The Ooni via his Instagram page had announced the birth of his twins with a photo of him and his third wife and ex-beauty queen, Olori Tobi Phillips. Expressing gratitude to God for the great He has done for them, he announced the birth of his set of twins.

The Ooni made it known that his wife and their twins were doing well to the glory of God.

Olori Tobi Phillips speaks after welcoming twins

Now speaking out, Olori Tobi took to her Instagram page to share photos from her baby shower, as she expressed gratitude to God for her blessings. She revealed that God gave her double for her trouble and told her to watch and allow Him do His work.

From the baby shower photos, the Queen had welcomed a boy and a girl.

“God said “Watch Me Do This.

Agbanilagbatan Gave Me Double For My Trouble”.

Olori Tobi Phillips speaks after welcoming twins

 Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi got married to Tobi Phillips on Sunday, October 9th, 2022. Though the Ooni wasn’t in sight, the King sent his guards, chief, and royal staff to the wedding ceremony.

Last year, Olori Tobi Phillips celebrated their first anniversary with stunning photos, as she noted how it has been 365 days of Grace with her love. She expressed her love for her husband, stating that it was a lifetime to go.

“I traveled all the way to Turkey” - Veekee James reveals how she made her wedding dress (video)


Even though Veekee James' wedding was widely covered by the media a month ago, the designer is obviously not done sharing the specifics of her big day, as she recently shared on Instagram about how she designed her wedding dress.

Veekee James explained in the video that she had to travel to Turkey to obtain the fabric for her wedding gown. She went into great detail about the changes she made to the dress before it was exactly right. When he called to see how she was doing while she was in Turkey, her husband Femi also made an appearance in the video.

Veekee James' wedding experience was extensively documented and posted online, to the point where some internet users became agitated and called her out for revealing everything. Veekee James continued to post about her wedding despite these claims, even on her honeymoon, when she was ridiculed online for showing up to the beach in a corset.

Veekee James appears to have succeeded in her goal of making her wedding the talk of Nigeria, since a significant portion of February was devoted to images and videos from the occasion. It's quite an accomplishment to reach one million followers on her own Instagram profile.

“She came with a pepper body” - IYA ZENDAYA @bammybestowed showed up in style for #deroyals24 All White Affair.

#BBNaija’s Bambam stirs the internet as she steals the spotlight at Queen’s wedding dinner

Big Brother Naija’s former housemate, Bamike Adenibuyan has stirred reactions as she steals the spotlight at her junior colleague, Queen’s wedding dinner.

Kemi Filani reported on Saturday that the reality star held her civil wedding at the Federal Marriage Registry, Lagos with friends, family, and close ones of the couple in attendance.

Following her civil wedding, Queen and her husband held a wedding dinner which had some of her colleagues in attendance. The likes of Liquorose, Bambam, Erica Nlewedim, Saskay, and her new boo, Boma, Chizzy, Angel Smith, Sammy, Arin, Saga, and more were in attendance. The theme of the dinner was white-themed and videos online captured the moment the reality stars turned up for the event all wearing white and exchanging pleasantries.

Bambam stole the spotlight in her two-piece white suit as she showed off her transformation body. The reality star who admitted last year that she underwent surgery stunned at the event as her curvy body was on full display.

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“I asked God for three signs before agreeing to marry my husband” - #BBNaija’s Queen spills as she shares her love story (Video)


Still, on Big Brother Naija Shine, ya Eyes housemate,Following her civil wedding, reality personality Queen Mercy Atang has revealed her love tale.

Before consenting to marry her spouse, Queen disclosed at her Civil wedding banquet that she had prayed to God for three indications.

She said that since David entered her life, everything has been wonderful since he has put her happiness first. She went on to say that he had given her joy, contentment, and calm.

Queen reported that her husband had questioned her about her weight, claiming that although she was getting fat, it was because of the happiness he had brought her.

Queen told him how much she loved him and vowed to support and adore him till the wheels came off.

“It’s been amazing, my happiness is a priority to David. He doesn’t want to see me angry or sad, he just wants me to be happy. He complains that I am getting fat but this fatness is not from food. It’s peace, happiness, and joy. I am very grateful to him for choosing me among many women in the world.

I will love you, I will take care of you, I will be there with you, till the wheels fall off”.

The reality personality and her partner, David, got married legally on Saturday, March 17. The Federal Marriage Registry in Lagos hosted the couple's civil wedding, which was attended by friends, family, and intimate acquaintances.

A few of Queen's coworkers attended the wedding banquet that followed their civil ceremony. Celebrities including Erica Nlewedim, Bambam, Arin, Boma Akpore, Chizzy, Bryan, Saskay, Angel Smith, Saga, and many more attended the event, all donning white attire in keeping with the evening's theme.
 





#BBNaija’s Queen and husband, David tie the knot legally (Photos and Video)


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Big Brother Naija’s former housemate, Queen Mercy Atang and David, the love of her life, are now officially wed.

The couple is currently getting married in court at the Federal Marriage Registry in Lagos. A few days earlier, they traveled to Akwa Ibom for her wedding introduction.

The couple could be seen posing for pictures with their wedding certificate in photos that were shared on her husband's Instagram page. Queen dressed in black and white to match her husband. Queen was dressed in a black jumpsuit with a black jacket, while her husband was dressed in black pants, a white shirt, and a white jacket.

Captioning the photos, he officially announced that they were legally married. He wrote, “Legally married”.

Hours before their court wedding, Queen had made a promise to her husband, David Oyekanmi, as she shared loved-up photos of her and her husband twinning in white. While Queen wore a white dress, her husband wore white and blue jeans.

Monday, 25 March 2024

Congratulations pour in as Minister Theophilus gets hitched to his foreign bride


As Minister Theophilus Sunday enters the league and becomes engaged to his Jamaican fiancée, Ashlee White, it's an engagement season for gospel preachers.

With the message, "As it pleases the Lord," the musician shared the wonderful news on his Instagram page.

Ashlee, his soon-to-be wife, is a Jamaican lawyer and real estate agent living in the United States.

With #sailingtosunday as their hashtag, it's clear that a lot of Nigerians are eager about the merger.

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Congratulations pour in as Minister Theophilus gets engaged to his foreign girlfriend

Congratulations pour in as Minister Theophilus gets engaged to his foreign girlfriend


“Get a Job, you’re not even an 8/10” – Daddy freeze roasts Rachel for belittling N800K salary

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BBNaija star Rachel Edwards has come under fire from Daddy Freeze for telling women not to settle for men who make N800K a month.

Remember how the reality star had gone on social media to advise women not to accept guys who make N800K a year because that is insufficient to support them?

Only one of the women's wigs, according to her opinion, would cover the man's income.

Rachel went on to counsel women against settling for males who make less than N800K.

“As a lady, you can’t settle for a man with N800,000 as salary in lagos. One wig and your man’s salary is finished baby girl,” she had written.

This stirred a reaction from Daddy Freeze who blasted her to get a job if she wants to live a luxurious life and stop being dependent on the man.

Daddy Freeze who further blasted her added that she can’t be qualified as an 8/10 lady.

“Get a job baby girl if you want to fund the soft life, or be an 8/10 at least, which sadly you aren’t…,” he wrote.

Israel DMW reacts as Tunde Ednut predicts his reconciliation with wife, Sheila

 

Israel DMW, an assistant to well-known artist Davido, attacks well-known blogger Tunde Ednut for suggesting that him and his wife Sheila will reconcile.

It is commonly known that Israel DMW and his spouse have been experiencing marital problems since 2023, just a year after their wedding.

After being split up, the two ill-tempered individuals have been sporadically insulting one another.

Well-known blogger Tunde Ednut made a speculative online statement suggesting that Israel DMW and his spouse Sheila would reconcile.

When asked if Tunde Ednut was intoxicated, Israel responded by comparing going back to Sheila's marriage to going back through hellfire.

Written by Tunde Ednut

“E go shock everybody when Israel and him wife come back together.”

Israel responded:

“Go back to hellfire? Are you Drunk?


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Sunday, 24 March 2024

Omotola Jalade Ekeinde and hubby, Matthew, celebrate 28th wedding anniversary today March 24. It’s also Matthew’s birthday today

Today, March 24, marks actress Omotola Jalade Ekeinde and her husband Matthew's 28th wedding anniversary. Today is also Matthew's birthday. Congratulations to them!

Omotola Jalade Ekeinde, a seasoned Nollywood actress, is celebrating both her husband's birthday and their 28th wedding anniversary.

The actress posted a photo of her "honeyboy" and a happy birthday message on her Instagram story in honor of their wedding anniversary.

Actress Omotola Jalade Ekeinde and hubby, Matthew, celebrate 28th wedding anniversary today March 24. It’s also Matthew’s birthday today. Congrats to them!

Omotola Jalade and her husband wedding anniversary

As she was filming her first screenplay and unable to post, she uploaded a collage of vintage throwback photos that her husband had created of her when they first met thirty years ago.

Her captions reads: “Happy birthday my honeyboy @captainekeinde And happy 28th marriage Anniversary to us! Love of my life.

“Been shooting my first Ever Screen film and couldn’t even post! So imagine seeing my hubby who’s Just learning Instagram posted this! Awww @captainekeinde. Happy birthday @captainekeinde And HWA to us.”

Her husband wrote: “30 YEARS AGO. WHEN I STARTED THE JOURNEY TOASTING.”

Her colleagues, friends, and fans joined her in commemorating their amazing journey spanning 28 years.

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Friday, 22 March 2024

Ooni of Ife welcomes twins with Queen Tobi

 


The Ooni of Ife, Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi, Ojaja II has welcomed a set of twins with one of his wives, Queen Tobi.

The Yoruba monarch has announced that he has welcomed a set of twins; a boy and a girl with his wife, Queen Tobi Philips.

The Ooni of Ife took to his Instagram page and shared the good news with his followers. He disclosed that the new members of the family were welcomed today March 16th, 2024.

He wrote on his page; “To God be the glory, great things he has done. Hearty congratulations to the entire house of Oduduwa and Olori Tobiloba, who today birthed a Prince and a Princess to the Royal Throne of Oduduwa. Mother and children are doing well to the glory of God Almighty”.

Ooni of Ife welcomes twins with Queen Tobi

Why being faithful in marriage is hard – Richard Mofe Damijo

 

Richard Mofe Damijo has said that being a faithful in marriage is the most difficult thing to do.

Nigerian veteran actor and lawyer Richard Damijo also know as RMD made this comment during an interview on the TejuBabyface DeepDive podcast with comedian Teju Babyface.

Why being faithful in marriage is hard - Richard Mofe Damijo

According to him, married men try to be faithful in their marriages but women like Delilah and Jezebels try to bring you down.

In his words;
“It is hard (to be faithful in marriage) because if you are in the line of work that we are in it is very hard because let’s face it, everyone of us that is married, we are the target.”

“I mean look at how women are. How can you escape it?

“Women are like Delilah, they are like Jezebels, they prepare and the only way you can perpetuate the real intentions of the enemy is to constantly aim at the image of God or the symbol of authority in any home. You shoot it down, it’s like being a general or a commander in a battlefield, you drop him and the battalion scatters.”

RMD added: “It’s very difficult and you have to get to a point where your wife understands what she’s up against as well because if your wife is not up to speed on what she’s up against, then your flanks would be left open.

“So, if there’s no harmony on that field.. I saw TD Jakes speak about this and I was so impressed. He said if you wanna know who’s got my back, jump me. It spoke to me and for me, that is what defines my life. You can’t touch my family and if I can react the way I react if you touch my family, then my family is got to be able to react the same way.”

Winnie Harlow & Kyle Kuzma are celebrating their 4 year relationship anniversary. Congrats to them!

 

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 Winnie Harlow & Kyle Kuzma are celebrating their 4 year relationship anniversary. Congrats to them!

Anita Joseph Speaks On How Marriage Has Influenced Her As She Marks 4th Anniversary With Husband

 


Nigerian actress, Anita Joseph, gleefully spoke about how her marriage to hype man, Michael Fisayo, popularly known as MC Fish, has influenced her.

Speaking in an interview with PUNCH, Anita, who recently celebrated her fourth wedding anniversary with her husband, revealed that marriage has influenced her positively.

According to the mother of one, being married to her husband has contributed to her personal growth and made her a better person.

Speaking further, Anita asserted that what matters most in terms of marital union is one’s heart and not the opinion or suggestions from ones’ parents and family members. She stated:

“Marriage has influenced me in a very positive way. I have learnt to be more protective and patient.

“What matters the most is one’s heart. One’s parents or other family members won’t be in the marriage with you, so it is basically one and one’s spouse forever. So, if one chooses someone from a different tribe, it is okay. One’s happiness comes first.”

On how she has been coping with the cultural differences considering that she is Igbo and her husband is Yoruba, she said:

“My mother-in-law speaks Yoruba to me and I say ‘eshe’ (thank you). I have learnt a bit, though it has not been easy.”


The role interpreter also stated that despite the disbelief of many about her marriage, she was happy to prove them wrong.

“As regards my post on Instagram on my wedding anniversary, I wrote that some people and even blogs said that my marriage won’t last, but I ‘sent’ it back to them and their sisters. God’s grace has kept my husband and I together,”

she said.

Ireland Baldwin Shares Honest Photos Of Her Postpartum Body 9 Months After Welcoming 1st Child To Motivate Other Mums


28-year-old model, Ireland Baldwin showed off her postpartum body nine months after giving birth to daughter Holland.

The first time mom took to Instagram on Tuesday, Feb. 20, to share a number of candid selfies in her bra and underwear.

The daughter of Hollywood stars, Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger told her followers that losing weight after giving birth was “hard”, but that it’s important to go at your own pace. She wrote:

“9 months postpartum and I’m far from where I want to be but I’m over the hump and finally finding time to get this ass into shape.

“Not necessarily working out everyday, but making strides to be more consistent. Walk more. Move more. Just wanted to do a solidarity post with anyone who’s having a tough time getting inspired to change bad habits/work on yourself.”


She added:


“I still have days where I binge eat an entire box of Girl Scout cookies for dinner but that’s OK! It took 7-9 months to even start to lose any baby weight or care to… and anyone who makes you feel bad for going at your own pace or not being enough can suck it. This s— is HARD. Be kind to yourself.”