‘Even if Adeboye, Oyedepo, Kumuyi, Okonkwo and other fathers in the faith, if any of them divorces, it’s still wrong!” - clergywoman, Sarah Omakwu speaks about divorce

Nigerian clergywoman Pastor Sarah Omakwu has sparked conversations about divorce after insisting that ending a marriage is wrong, regardless of who is involved, including respected church leaders.

In a resurfaced sermon, she specifically mentioned Pastor Enoch Adeboye, Bishop David Oyedepo, Pastor William Kumuyi and Bishop Chris Okonkwo, saying that divorce would still be wrong even if any of them ended their marriages.

Pastor Sarah Omakwu’s reported exact words were:

 “Even if Adeboye, Oyedepo, Kumuyi, Okonkwo, these fathers in the faith, if any of them divorce, it is still wrong. No matter what the reason, it’s wrong based on the Word of God.If you are not intending or planning to stay in marriage for life, it is better not to enter. Because the only reason you can separate from a man or woman is if there is sexual immorality. Outside of that, there are no grounds for divorce.”

On domestic violence, she added:

“Once there is battery, the person is taken out. You take them out and leave until it is fixed. And if it takes ten years to fix that person, good. If it is not fixed, don’t go back.”

The sermon is titled Divorce & Remarriage, part of her Marriage Is Sweet series. Family Worship Centre

Omakwu maintained that sexual immorality is the only biblical ground for divorce. Addressing domestic abuse, she said victims should leave unsafe environments and remain separated until genuine behavioural change occurs, even if the process takes years. 

Her comments have renewed debate about Christian teachings on marriage, divorce, domestic violence and the difference between separation and ending a marriage.

The sermon resurfaced amid conversations surrounding Pastor Jimmy Odukoya's remarriage, with Nigerians expressing differing views on whether marriage should be preserved regardless of circumstances.

Do you agree with Pastor Sarah Omakwu that divorce is wrong even for prominent church leaders, with sexual immorality being the only biblical ground for ending a marriage? Or are there other circumstances in which divorce should be acceptable?

Bisi Alimi celebrates 10 year wedding anniversary

 

Nigerian-British gay rights activist Bisi Alimi and his husband, Anthony Davis, are celebrating 10 years of marriage, marking a decade since they exchanged vows in the United Kingdom on November 5, 2016.

To mark the milestone, Bisi shared a photograph recalling their first date alongside a heartfelt message celebrating their journey together.

“It is 10 years since we got married today. We could write an epistle about it, but what matters is that, with laughs, smiles, and together, we are still going stronger 10 years later. Happy wedding anniversary to us,” he wrote.

The couple’s wedding in the UK was attended by friends and family. Over the years, Alimi has also spoken publicly about the significance of their relationship, particularly against the backdrop of Nigeria’s legal and social attitudes towards same-sex relationships.

Ten years later, their anniversary is both a personal celebration of companionship and another public moment in Alimi’s long-standing advocacy for LGBTQ+ visibility and acceptance.

Throwback JIMMY odukoya as groomsman for Mo Jasmyne first marriage

 

An old wedding photograph of Pastor Jimmy Odukoya serving as a groomsman at Mo Jasyme’s first wedding has resurfaced online, attracting attention following the couple’s recent marriage.

The photograph reportedly dates back to around 2011 and shows Jimmy standing alongside Mo and her former husband, Nigerian gospel singer and music producer Mosadoluwa Adegboye, popularly known as Mosa or itsMOSA.

At the time, Jimmy appeared without the dreadlocks that have since become part of his familiar public image.

The throwback has generated conversations because, years after that wedding, Jimmy and Mo have now become husband and wife. Jimmy introduced Mo to his congregation at The Fountain of Life Church in Lagos on November 1, 2026.

The resurfaced photograph has left social media users reflecting on how relationships and life journeys can take unexpected turns.

What do you make of this unexpected full-circle moment? 

Did you ever imagine that the man who once stood beside Mo as a groomsman would years later become her husband?

Ghanaian singer Efya ties the knot with Nigerian singer Tómi Thomas six years after vowing never to marry

 

Ghanaian singer Efya has married Nigerian singer and songwriter Tómi Thomas, six years after publicly expressing doubts about ever getting married.

The couple held their traditional wedding ceremony in Accra, Ghana, on Friday, November 6, 2026, followed by a white wedding on Saturday, November 7. Their celebrations brought together family, friends and notable personalities from the Ghanaian and Nigerian entertainment industries. 

Efya, whose real name is Jane Awindor, looked elegant in traditional Kente attire, while Tómi Thomas embraced the cultural celebration with his own traditional outfit. Among the guests were Sister Derby, Fella Makafui, Hajia4Reall and Efia Odo. 

The wedding has also brought renewed attention to a 2020 interview in which Efya said marriage was not part of her plans. Reacting to a viral post highlighting the contrast, the singer jokingly admitted: “Lol I guess I lied ... Oppsssssss.” 

Their story is a reminder that personal views and life plans can change. What someone believes about marriage at one stage of life does not necessarily define what they will want years later.

“I was not a great husband because I watched too much adult content” – Comedian Chris Rock reflects on past struggles

American comedian and actor Chris Rock has opened up about personal challenges that affected his 20-year marriage to his ex-wife, Malaak Compton-Rock, admitting that his excessive consumption of sexually explicit content contributed to him not being the husband he wanted to be.

Rock made the revelation in a GQ interview published on Tuesday, November 3, while reflecting on his 2016 divorce and his efforts to rebuild his life.

Speaking about the 12-year gap between directing his films Top Five and Misty Green, the comedian explained that his divorce, financial difficulties and personal circumstances contributed to the lengthy break.

“I got divorced. Nobody has a successful divorce, so that takes time,” he said, adding that he had to rebuild his finances through stand-up comedy tours.

Reflecting on his marriage, Rock admitted that he had not been a good husband, partly because he spent too much time watching adult content.

He also revealed that he stopped the habit about five or six years ago.

The entertainer said the experiences had humbled him and made him reflect on his past behaviour.

“I tested my powers. I definitely realized I wasn’t God or anywhere near him, and I was severely humbled, as I should have been,” he said.

Rock had previously spoken about his struggles with adult content and infidelity in his 2018 comedy special, where he discussed how his behaviour affected his marriage.

He and Malaak divorced in 2016 after 20 years of marriage.

Why are you always frowning?” – Funny moment as Media personality Toke Makinwa teases daughter during feeding session

 

 Toke Makinwa has shared a playful moment with her daughter, Yakira Eliana, as she teased the little girl during a feeding session.

In a video shared on her Snapchat, Toke was seen looking at her daughter and asking why she was always frowning before encouraging her to smile.

“Why are you always frowning? Smile. Jesus loves you, life is great,” she told her daughter.

The lighthearted exchange has drawn attention for its relatable parenting moment, showing a softer side of the media personality as she enjoys everyday moments with her child. 

What do you think? Do babies naturally have serious facial expressions, or does Yakira already have her own little personality?

Pastor Jimmy Odukoya, Senior Pastor of Fountain of Life Church and his beautiful wife, Pastor Mo Jasmyne😍

Pastor Jimmy Odukoya, Senior Pastor of The Fountain of Life Church, and his wife, Pastor Mo Jasmyne, are drawing attention following their recent marriage and introduction to the church congregation.

The couple were welcomed at the church's headquarters in Ilupeju, Lagos, on November 1, 2026, where Jimmy officially introduced Mo as his wife and the church's new First Lady. Their appearance marked a new chapter in the pastor's personal life. 

What Pastor Jimmy Odukoya said

“Ever since I became your pastor, I was doing this walk of life alone, and you know, the Bible said it is not good; it said I will find somebody suitable. When Adam saw it, he said, ‘This is the flesh of my flesh, bone of my bone, my left and right rib.’ So, I was looking and searching, and I found.”

He also told the congregation:

“Some of you saw the post. Some people said, is it artwork? Is it a bird? Is it a plane? No, no, no, it’s my wife. Ladies and gentlemen, allow me to introduce to you, for the first time, Pastor Mrs Odukoya. And your First Lady, and my wife. Pastor Mo Odukoya.”

What Pastor Mo Odukoya said

“Good morning, family. It’s my pleasure and honour to be here and stand alongside my husband, the Senior Pastor of the Fountain of Life Church.”

What Pastor Tunde Bakare said

Praying for the couple, Pastor Bakare said:

“We are not here to sweep anything under the carpet. All things must be done decently and in order. We give you glory and praise because you have begun a good work, and you will perfect it in the life of your son and his wife.”

He continued:

“Your union will be a power union. Your family and household will be the centre of kingdom activities.”

He also prayed:

“This home is built on the foundation of peace and stability, and love of God. Nothing will desecrate it. Nothing will dismantle it. It will wax stronger and stronger daily, and it will become an example to follow, and not a mistake to avoid.”

- Genesis 2:18: - “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”

- Genesis 2:23: - “This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh.”

- Philippians 1:6: - “He which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ.”

- Matthew 18:18: -“Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven…”

 The most striking line from Bakare was his prayer that the marriage would become “an example to follow, and not a mistake to avoid.” It gives the story a deeper dimension beyond the wedding announcement.

Pastor Mo, also known as Mo Jasmine Daniel, is a pastor, author and creative professional. The couple's union has generated interest among church members and social media followers.

What do you think of Pastor Jimmy and Pastor Mo's lovely couple appearance?

Pastor Jimmy Odukoya, Senior Pastor of the Fountain of Life Church, Ilupeju, Lagos, is now married to Pastor Mo Jasmyne. Pastor Tunde Bakare of The Cutadel Church, blessed the marriage today during the church service in Fountain of life church.

Pastor Jimmy Odukoya, Senior Pastor of the Fountain of Life Church, Ilupeju, Lagos, is now married to Pastor Mo Jasmyne. Pastor Tunde Bakare of The Cutadel Church, blessed the marriage today during the church service in Fountain of life church. 

Pastor Jimmy Odukoya, Senior Pastor of The Fountain of Life Church in Ilupeju, Lagos, has received prayers and blessings for his marriage to Pastor Mo Jasmyne.

Pastor Tunde Bakare of The Citadel Global Community Church delivered the prayers during a church service at Fountain of Life Church, where the couple were formally presented to the congregation.

During the blessing, Pastor Bakare prayed that their marriage would become a strong and lasting union, describing it as a “power union.”

He also declared that their home would be built on peace, stability and the love of God, praying that nothing would desecrate or dismantle it.

One particularly striking part of his prayer was his wish that the couple's marriage would become “an example to follow, and not a mistake to avoid.”

Drawing from Philippians 1:6, which speaks about God completing the good work He has begun, Bakare prayed for God's continued guidance over their union.

His words placed the occasion beyond a formal introduction, turning it into a public moment of prayer, spiritual encouragement and celebration for the newly married couple.

Which part of Pastor Bakare's prayer stood out to you most: “a power union” or “an example to follow, and not a mistake to avoid”?

Ashanti Turns 46: Nelly Throws Wife Surprise Birthday Party at TEN11 in New York

The 46th-birthday celebration for Ashanti in New York at TEN11 Lounge & Bar. Ashanti turned 46 on October 13, 2026, and Nelly publicly celebrated her birthday that day. 

The party was reportedly a surprise birthday bash organised by Nelly at TEN11 Lounge & Bar (NoMad) in Manhattan. A venue-specific report identifies Nelly as throwing Ashanti the surprise celebration and Tamron Hall among those present. 

TEN11 is at 19 W 31st Street, New York, and describes itself as a lounge and nightlife venue with private-event options, including birthday celebrations. 

 Ashanti's 46th birthday reflects the couple's new chapter — particularly because Nelly and Ashanti reunited in 2023, married later that year, and welcomed their son KK in 2024. 

Ashanti turned 46 on October 13, 2026, while the birthday gathering at TEN11 was subsequently highlighted by the venue on October 23. The lounge thanked Ashanti and Nelly for choosing the location for her birthday celebration and praised the energy they brought to the room in Manhattan.

The venue's social-media post also credited visual coverage to @han.visuals, while subsequent videos shared by friends and family offered additional glimpses of the celebration.

Ashanti's birthday celebration also attracted attention because of Nelly's public tribute.

On October 13, he shared a photograph of the couple and described Ashanti as his "forever favorite."

He also wrote:

"Out of everything I ever chased, you the one thing I'd never stop choosing."

The message was widely reported as part of his birthday tribute to his wife. 

Before the private party, Nelly publicly celebrated his wife's birthday on October 13 with a photograph of the couple and a heartfelt Instagram tribute.

“Happy Birthday to my forever favorite,” he wrote.

The rapper continued: “I done had a lot of wins in this life, but ain’t no flex bigger than having you by my side. Out of everything I ever chased, you the one thing I’d never stop choosing. Love you for life, mama.”

His message attracted attention because of the couple's well-documented relationship history.

Ashanti's birthday is another public moment in a relationship that has moved through dating, separation, reconciliation, marriage and parenthood.

For fans who followed their early-2000s romance, seeing the two celebrate together represents a notable new chapter in their personal story.

However, the significance of the occasion goes beyond the romantic photographs. It also highlights Ashanti's continuing public presence as an established R&B performer while celebrating a personal milestone surrounded by family, friends and her husband.

At 46, the Foolish singer has a career spanning more than two decades, a family life with Nelly and a continuing connection with audiences who have followed her music since the beginning.

Their journey from former lovers to reunited partners, marriage and parenthood has made their relationship a familiar love story in entertainment. Nelly's reported surprise celebration adds another memorable moment to their shared journey.

What do you think makes a birthday surprise more special: the effort behind the planning or having the people you love around you?

"Big weddings put pressure on couples and on the marriage itself" Actress Ruth Kadiri says as she advices couples

Nollywood actress and filmmaker Ruth Kadiri has advised couples to think beyond the size and spectacle of their wedding celebrations, warning that extravagant weddings can place pressure not only on couples but also on the marriage itself.

Her message shifts attention from the wedding day to what happens after it. While a large wedding can be beautiful and memorable, the celebration is only one day; the marriage requires the couple to navigate finances, expectations, family relationships, communication and everyday life together.

A wedding can become more than a celebration when couples feel compelled to satisfy the expectations of family, friends, society or social media. The desire to create a memorable event can lead couples to spend beyond what is financially comfortable or attach too much importance to how the wedding is perceived by others

“I do think that big weddings put pressure on couples; it puts pressure on the marriage itself. Big weddings put pressure on people, and they don’t seem to have realised that. They don’t seem to have realised that because I’m not just talking about spirituality or anything; I’m talking about mental health.” 

She went on to question why couples can date happily for years, then experience fear or a change in their relationship after the wedding ceremony:

 “People naturally have a fear of what marriage is… and then after this whole damn ceremony, have you asked yourself what changed? Married, that wedding is part of what changed.” 

Her practical advice was to simplify the wedding, suggesting a small ceremony with close family, about 30 guests for the court wedding, a pastor’s prayer, and then going home together. 

That pressure can continue after the ceremony. If a couple begins married life carrying significant financial obligations created by the wedding, the celebration can have consequences long after the photographs have been posted.

There can also be emotional pressure. A highly publicised wedding may create the expectation that the marriage must constantly appear equally perfect in public, making ordinary marital challenges harder to navigate privately.

Kadiri’s advice raises an important distinction: the resources required to stage a wedding are not necessarily the resources required to build a healthy marriage.

A couple can have a spectacular wedding and still struggle with compatibility, communication or financial disagreements. Conversely, a modest wedding does not determine whether a marriage will succeed.

Are they financially prepared for married life? Have they discussed expectations about money, children, careers and family boundaries? Can they resolve disagreements? Do they understand each other's values?

These questions may be less visible than the wedding décor, guest list or designer outfits, but they can have a much greater effect on the life that follows.

Nigeria has a strong wedding culture in which weddings can function as major family and social events. For many couples, the ceremony is not simply about two people; it involves parents, extended families, friends, religious communities and social networks.

That makes wedding planning particularly vulnerable to external expectations.Kadiri’s observation therefore invites couples to separate celebrating their marriage from performing their marriage for other people.

A wedding should mark the beginning of a marriage—not become the standard against which the marriage itself is judged.The point is not that big weddings are inherently bad. Couples who can comfortably afford elaborate celebrations may choose to have them and enjoy the experience.

The celebration lasts a day. The financial, emotional and relational decisions surrounding it can last for years.

That is why, when planning a wedding, couples may benefit from asking not only “How do we want our wedding to look?” but also “What kind of marriage do we want this wedding to lead into?”

53-Year-Old Man Arrested After Girlfriend Is Stabbed 15 Times in Italy

A 53-year-old man, Marco Panichi, has been arrested for st@bbing his 36-year-old girlfriend, Grey Sanmartin Villalba, fifteen times in the neck in Vergiate, in the province of Varese, Italy, on Friday, October 23.

After committing the crime, Marco, who is a plumbing technician, drove to his father’s apartment in another province, confessed to the crime, and then turned himself in to the police.

At the police station, he claimed he was defending himself from an attack by his Colombian partner, whom he alleged wielded a knife at him during the argument

At the police station, Panichi reportedly told investigators that he had been defending himself from an attack by his Colombian partner.

He allegedly claimed that Villalba had been holding a knife during the argument.

That account is an allegation made by the accused and should not be treated as an established fact. Investigators and the courts will determine what happened before and during the attack.

The case raises an important distinction between what an accused person says happened and what the available evidence establishes.

A claim of self-defence does not, by itself, establish that an attack was justified. Investigators would need to examine the circumstances surrounding the confrontation, including physical and forensic evidence, witness accounts and the sequence of events.

The number and location of the reported injuries are also part of the evidence investigators must consider, rather than something that can independently establish guilt or disprove a self-defence claim.

As the investigation develops, the important questions are what evidence supports Panichi's account, whether investigators establish that Villalba attacked him first, what happened immediately before the stabbing and whether prosecutors believe the evidence supports a self-defence argument.

Men should learn to be happy for their ex-wives when marriage ends, not bitter and hateful- Elsie Okpocha says

 

Elsie Okpocha has advised men to learn to be happy for the ex-wives after divorce, rather than harbour bitterness and hatred.

The realtor, who was married to veteran comedian, Bright Okpocha, popularly known as Basketmouth, shared the message on her Instagram story on Tuesday, October 20.

The mother of three was reacting to a viral video of a New York City divorce lawyer publicly praising his ex-wife’s current husband of ten years.

The lawyer noted that this doesn’t mean that his love for his ex-wife was worth less or there’s something wrong with him.

He explained that one can genuinely love someone and still not be the right person for them or what they need.

“Men should learn this…be happy for her when it ends, not bitter and hateful,” Elsie wrote.

The lawyer explained that being happy for an ex-partner does not diminish the love they once shared. He noted that two people can genuinely love each other but still not be the right partners for one another.

Her comments have reopened conversations about how former couples handle life after divorce, particularly when one person moves on and finds happiness with someone else.

Do you believe ex-partners should genuinely celebrate each other's happiness after divorce, or is keeping your distance the healthier way to move on?

She Survived a Terrible Marriage” — Peggy Ovire Celebrated in Special Birthday Chant Commissioned by Friend

 

Nollywood actress Peggy Ovire has received an emotional birthday tribute from a friend who commissioned a special Yoruba chant celebrating her strength, resilience and new chapter in life.

"She survived a terrible marriage. She went through a lot, but today, she is standing strong. She deserves happiness, peace and everything beautiful life has to offer.”

The chant, performed by Yoruba chanter Ayodele Tayelolu Deborah, described Peggy as a woman who endured a difficult marriage but emerged stronger. It praised her for choosing peace, reclaiming her happiness and finding the courage to move forward.

The performer also described Peggy as a woman who had conquered a terrible marriage, while thanking another woman identified as Erika for arranging the special tribute. 

The performance has attracted reactions online, particularly because of the public attention surrounding Peggy's reported separation from actor Frederick Leonard.

While the chant presents Peggy's experience from the perspective of those celebrating her, its references to a terrible marriage should not be mistaken for independently established details about what happened between the former couple.

**Do you think friends should publicly celebrate a woman's decision to walk away from a marriage, or should such personal experiences remain private?**

Our bundle of joy has been with us for some time now" - John Boyega reveals he secretly got married nearly two years ago as he welcomes first child

 

British-Nigerian actor John Boyega has revealed that he secretly got married nearly two years ago and has now welcomed his first child with his wife.

The Star Wars actor opened up about his marriage during a recent interview with The Guardian, explaining why he and his wife chose to keep their wedding private.

“We both like the idea of celebrating something established rather than celebrating the entry,” he said.

Although the couple opted for a quiet ceremony, Boyega revealed that he hopes to have a bigger celebration someday, joking that they would “have to shut Nigeria down!”

Speaking about starting a family, the actor expressed his happiness, saying, “My life is completely fulfilled in terms of family. It’s been so nice with the timing.”

At the time of the interview, Boyega disclosed that they were expecting a baby boy. However, the actor has since confirmed the arrival of their child through a post on Instagram.

"Our bundle of joy has been with us for some time now but thank you for all the well wishes. Also my sister is about to pop! Wish her well too! Back to feeding this big baby!

The actor's wife, whose Instagram name now reads Tae Boyega, responded affectionately to his announcement.

Boyega explained that he and his wife preferred a small ceremony because they wanted to celebrate an established marriage rather than focus on the wedding itself. However, he expressed interest in having a larger traditional Nigerian wedding celebration in the future.

His announcement has surprised fans, as the actor has largely kept his romantic life away from public attention.

What do you think of John Boyega keeping his marriage and fatherhood private for nearly two years before sharing the news?

WAG Era Activated! Entrepreneur Njideka Steps Out in Wilfred Ndidi’s No. 4 Jersey as She Supports the Super Eagles in Uyo

 

Entrepreneur and social media personality Njideka caught the attention of football fans after stepping out in a Super Eagles jersey bearing the name and number of midfielder Wilfred Ndidi during Nigeria’s 2027 Africa Cup of Nations qualifying match against Madagascar in Uyo.

Nigeria secured a 2-1 victory in the encounter, with Ndidi playing the full 90 minutes. However, while the Super Eagles were focused on the action on the pitch, Njideka’s appearance in the stands created a talking point of its own.

She wore Ndidi’s familiar No. 4 shirt and shared photographs of herself in the jersey, prompting reactions from fans who noticed the personal touch behind her choice of match-day outfit. 

Her appearance has also renewed online speculation about a possible relationship between the entrepreneur and the Super Eagles captain. Reports have previously pointed to social media interactions and occasions when the pair were allegedly spotted in similar locations. However, neither Njideka nor Ndidi has publicly confirmed the relationship rumours. <Cite

For now, the No. 4 jersey has given fans something extra to discuss beyond the football. Whether it was simply a show of support or a more personal gesture, Njideka certainly made her presence felt in Uyo.

Could this be the beginning of Njideka’s WAG era, or is she simply a proud supporter of the Super Eagles?

It's only Nigerians who will do traditional wedding, church wedding,registry

 

It's only Nigerians who can do traditional wedding, registry wedding and church wedding—and still call it one wedding!

For many Nigerian couples, each ceremony carries a different meaning: the traditional wedding honours family and culture, the registry makes the marriage legally recognised, while the church wedding celebrates their union through faith.

Three ceremonies, one couple, one marriage—and plenty of expenses! 

Tobey Maguire officiated the wedding of his ex-wife, Jennifer Meyer, to billionaire heir Geoff Ogunlesi in Hawaii.

American actor Tobey Maguire officiated the wedding of his ex-wife, Jennifer Meyer, to billionaire heir Geoff Ogunlesi in Hawaii. The Spider-Man star took on the special role during the ceremony held at the Four Seasons Resort Lanai, where Jennifer exchanged vows with her new husband.

 Photos from the wedding showed Tobey smiling as he read from a piece of paper while the newlyweds shared a kiss. The ceremony was attended by several celebrities, including Leonardo DiCaprio, his girlfriend Vittoria Ceretti, Jeff Bezos, Courteney Cox and Rachel Zoe. Tobey and Jennifer’s two children, Ruby, 19, and Otis, 17, were also present at the celebration. 

 The former couple married in 2007 but separated in 2016. Jennifer filed for divorce in October 2020, and reports indicate that their divorce was finalised last month. Despite their separation, the pair have maintained a cordial relationship

The wedding has attracted attention because it challenges the familiar expectation that a divorce must automatically lead to hostility between former spouses. For Meyer and Maguire, their relationship appears to have evolved beyond marriage into a family connection built around co-parenting and mutual respect.

Their story is about modern relationships: can a marriage end without the friendship, respect and family bond disappearing with it?

Would you allow your ex-husband or ex-wife to officiate your wedding to someone else?

Ondo air crash pilot d!es two weeks after his wedding

 

Squadron Leader Ahamefule Aham Man-Ugwueje, one of the pilots of the Nigerian Air Force ATR-42 aircraft, NAF 931, which crashed in Igbokoda, Ondo State, on Monday, got married in an elaborate ceremony in Abuja two weeks before the accident.

The aircraft, which had 25 people on board, including five crew members and 20 passengers, crashed while on a routine mission from Benin to Lagos on Monday, October 5, 2026.

Nigerian Air Force on Tuesday, October 6, released the names of the 25 victims.

Man-Ugwueje tied the knot with Flight Lieutenant Damilola Adekunle on September 19, 2026.

The couple’s Holy Matrimony was held at the Redeemed Christian Church of God, The Masters Place, Plot 826, Solomon Lar Way, opposite the NHIS Headquarters/Customary Court of Appeal, Utako, Abuja.

The reception followed at the Nigerian Army Conference Centre, Km 10 Expressway, Asokoro, Abuja

DJ Mustard Seeks $30K From Ex-Wife Chanel Thierry Amid Custody Dispute

 

DJ Mustard has returned to court in his ongoing custody dispute with ex-wife Chanel Thierry, asking a judge to impose $30,000 in sanctions against her.

According to court documents reported by TMZ, Mustard is also seeking sole legal custody of their three children, alleging that Thierry violated an existing order that barred both parents from making negative or derogatory comments about each other in the presence or hearing of their children.

Mustard's filing points to social-media posts Thierry allegedly made about him, including comments expressing frustration with her ex-husband and claiming that he continued to do things deliberately to get under her skin.

He argues that the posts negatively affect their children's best interests and make co-parenting more difficult.

Thierry, however, has pushed back publicly, questioning why Mustard filed the latest papers and arguing that her posts fall under freedom of speech.

This is where celebrity divorce gets interesting.The relationship may be over, but the relationship's consequences aren't.In this case, social media has become part of that negotiation too.

When two people share children, the breakup doesn't necessarily end the negotiation. Parenting decisions, money, public statements and old resentments can keep the relationship legally alive long after the marriage itself has ended.

What one person sees as venting, the other can frame as a violation with consequences.

The query is no longer simply who said what? It's what happens when a private conflict becomes public — and then becomes evidence?

When exes share children, should social-media comments about each other ever become part of a custody battle?

At what point does “venting” about an ex stop being personal expression and start affecting the parenting relationship?

Should co-parents simply stay completely silent about each other online?

Nigerian Bride Carries Groom During Their First Dance, Leaves Wedding Guests Cheering

 

A Nigerian bride has caught the attention of social media users after a video showed her lifting her groom during their wedding reception, turning their first dance into an unexpected and entertaining moment.

In the viral clip, the newlyweds were on the dance floor when the bride confidently lifted her husband off the ground in front of their guests. Rather than the familiar wedding moment of a groom lifting his bride, this time the roles were reversed.

The groom appeared amused and happy as guests cheered, while the bride seemed comfortable showing off her strength. The playful moment quickly became a talking point online, with viewers sharing humorous reactions.

One caption accompanying the video read, “God really don help am,” while some social media users joked about the groom looking like a happy baby in his wife's arms. Others turned the moment into a conversation about traditional expectations of masculinity and whether some Nigerian men would be comfortable being carried by their wives. 

Beyond the laughter, the moment offers a light-hearted reminder that weddings do not always have to follow familiar scripts. Sometimes, the memories guests take home are created by the unexpected moments when couples simply let themselves enjoy the celebration.

Would you carry your husband on the dance floor, or is that one wedding tradition you would leave to the groom?

Damilola Adegbite Says the Older Woman Once Overlooked Is Now “The Premium Package”

Actress Damilola Adegbite has spoken about the changing perception of older women in the dating world.

She said there was a time when women were made to feel that reaching a certain age meant quietly exiting the dating scene.

But, according to Damilola, that attitude is changing.

“There was a time when society made older women feel like once you've crossed a certain age, you should basically leave the dating market quietly, but now the tables are turning,” she said.»

Then came the line that caught our attention:

“The older woman who was once overlooked has become the premium package.”»

And honestly, there is something bigger happening here than dating.

For a long time, women were often taught that their romantic value had an expiry date.

Youth was treated as the asset.Marriage was treated as the destination.Once a woman crossed a certain age without being married, society could make her feel as though she had somehow missed her window.

The conversation is shifting.Experience, confidence, independence, emotional maturity and knowing exactly what you want can become attractive in ways that weren't always acknowledged.

The nuance part is that the woman herself may not have changed as much as the way people are learning to value her has changed.

Amazingly real power of the “premium package” isn't that older women suddenly became desirable.Maybe it's that women are becoming less willing to measure their worth by whether someone chose them early.

This likely changes the dating equation completely.

If a woman's value was never supposed to have an expiry date, why did society create one?

Is the older woman becoming more desirable — or are people finally learning to recognise qualities they previously overlooked?

What makes someone a “premium package” in the dating world: youth, beauty, experience, confidence, character — or something else?

Woman Accuses Irewole Olaniyan of Having an Affair With Her Husband

 

A private marital dispute has suddenly become public, after a woman identified as Mary Edris accused Nollywood actress Irewole Olaniyan of allegedly having a relationship with her husband for about three years. Mary made the allegations in a now-deleted social media post on October 3, 2026. 

According to Mary, she had previously approached Irewole privately about the situation. She claimed the actress initially said she did not know the man was married, described him as not her type and said she had blocked him. Mary alleges that the relationship nevertheless continued. 

Mary further alleged that the man supported some of Irewole's movie productions, trips and lifestyle, and claimed they travelled together to South Africa in September 2024. She also accused the actress of continuing to contact her husband after he allegedly ended the relationship. These are allegations made by Mary and have not been independently established. 

Screenshots shared by Mary purportedly show messages from Irewole saying that she ended the relationship long ago and accusing Mary of trying to damage her reputation. The screenshots have not been independently verified, and reports say Irewole had not issued a separate public statement at the time of publication. 

When a private relationship becomes a public accusation, what can social media actually establish — and what remains between the people involved?

The internet may quickly choose sides. Evidence, however, moves more slowly.For now, there are competing accounts, a deleted post and screenshots whose authenticity has not been independently verified.

The most important detail in a viral story is the difference between what has been alleged and what has actually been established.

Jaiyeorie — this is why it matters.

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606 autos surprises wife with N10m bouquet and fuchsia crocodile Kelly Hermes

 

Nigerian businessman 606 Autos has given his wife a lavish surprise, reportedly presenting her with a ₦10 million flower bouquet alongside a striking fuchsia crocodile Hermès Kelly handbag.

The surprise has attracted attention for its combination of extravagant gifting and luxury fashion. The bouquet made a statement of its own, while the vibrant pink Hermès Kelly added another standout piece to the presentation.

The Hermès Kelly is one of the fashion house's most recognisable handbag designs. However, the crocodile-skin version belongs to a particularly exclusive category of luxury accessories. Sotheby's notes that exotic-skin Hermès bags are highly sought after by collectors, with prices varying considerably according to the leather, size, condition and design. 

The fuchsia colour makes the handbag especially eye-catching, moving away from the neutral shades often associated with understated luxury.

Beyond the gifts, the gesture has sparked conversation about extravagant expressions of love and the growing visibility of luxury gifting among Nigerian couples.

Between a ₦10 million bouquet and a fuchsia crocodile Hermès Kelly, which gift would leave you more impressed?

Some people event deco or drink budget alone is the whole 80m - Bisola of Trendybee events

Nigerian event planner Bisola Borha, founder of TrendyBE Events, has offered a glimpse into the scale of spending behind some Nigerian celebrations, pointing out that the decoration or drinks budget for certain events can amount to an entire ₦80 million wedding budget.

Her observation highlights the growing scale of Nigeria’s luxury event industry, particularly in Lagos, where weddings have increasingly become elaborate productions involving carefully designed venues, premium drinks, extensive catering and detailed guest experiences.

Speaking about the economics of Nigerian weddings, Borha has also discussed the pressures and expectations surrounding event spending, including food, asoebi and family influence. She appeared on the OffAir Show in an episode titled The Lagos Asoebi Pandemic, which explored wedding budgets ranging from ₦50 million to ₦900 million. 

Her comment puts the cost of celebration into perspective. What one couple considers an entire wedding budget may represent just one part of the spending for another couple's event.

It also raises questions about the changing meaning of an expensive Nigerian wedding. Is the spending driven by personal taste, family expectations, social status, guest experience or the pressure to create an unforgettable celebration?

As Nigeria's luxury events industry continues to attract attention, one thing is clear: wedding budgets can look very different depending on the scale of the celebration.

If someone's decoration or drinks budget is already ₦80 million, what do you imagine the full wedding budget looks like?

Gabrielle Union Says She Felt Entitled to Cheat on First Husband Because She Paid the Bills

 

American actress Gabrielle Union has opened up about her infidelity during her first marriage, admitting that she once felt entitled to cheat because she was financially supporting the relationship.

The Bring It On actress made the revelation during a January 2023 appearance on Dax Shepard’s Armchair Expert podcast, where she reflected on her marriage to former NFL player Chris Howard.

Union and Howard married in 2001 and divorced in 2006. According to the actress, their relationship was troubled from the beginning, with neither partner believing that marriage should prevent them from dating other people.

“In my first marriage, neither one of us felt like the marriage should get in the way of our dating,” she explained.

Union said she sometimes responded to her husband's alleged activities by engaging in similar behaviour. She also admitted that being the person paying the bills influenced how she viewed her actions at the time.

“I just felt entitled to it as well. I was paying all the bills, I was working my ass off and I felt like that's what comes, the spoils of riches,” she said. 

Looking back, Union described the marriage as dysfunctional and admitted that she wished she had felt more guilt about some of her decisions.

She also revealed that she was seeking validation from the attention of other men, explaining that their interest made her feel worthy, valuable and deserving.

The actress has since reflected on how differently she understands relationships and self-worth. She married former NBA star Dwyane Wade in 2014.

Her candid account raises an uncomfortable question about relationships and financial power. Does being the primary breadwinner ever make someone feel entitled to behave differently in a marriage, or is that simply a justification for breaking the commitment?

Can financial contribution ever justify infidelity in a relationship?

Banky W did not say Adesua Etomi is a bad cook. He said she can cook very well, but cooking is simply not her thing.

 

During an appearance on The Teju Babyface Show, published in May 2026, Banky W explained that he does most of the cooking at home because he genuinely enjoys it.

His exact words were:

“My wife does not really cook, which she can cook very well, but it’s not her thing.” 

He also explained that some people might find their arrangement unusual, but it works for their marriage.

Interestingly, he connected his willingness to serve his wife with what she endured during their journey to having children, including multiple IVF cycles.

The real story: Adesua isn't being described as a bad cook. Banky W is saying she doesn't particularly enjoy cooking, so he takes on that responsibility.

 

Never forget when Karim Benzema on Valentine's day to current party lner, 2ns wife and 1st wife

On Karim Benzema Valentine’s Day story from February 14, 2023, when he appeared to send large bouquets of roses to three women: his then-current partner Jordan Ozuna, and his two former partners and mothers of his children, Cora Gauthier and Chloé de Launay. Multiple reports noted that the bouquets appeared strikingly similar. 

 Karim Benzema gave three women roses on Valentine’s Day.What does it mean when the boundaries between “current partner,” “ex-partner,” co-parent and family remain socially connected?

The red bouquets were apparently from Benzema based on the women's posts and their similarity; that isn't the same as independently verified proof of who purchased each bouquet. 

Does Valentine's Day usually separates “the woman you're with” from “the women you used to love.” Benzema's flowers gesture clearly blurred that line.

When an ex becomes the mother or father of your child, does Valentine's Day still belong exclusively to romantic love — or can appreciation exist outside the relationship that ended?

Perhaps the most interesting part of a love story isn't who is together.

It's who remains connected after they aren't.

 “What happens to love, appreciation and boundaries when an ex becomes family?”

Teyana Taylor Paid Her Ex $70,000. The Interesting Part Was Why.

 

A Georgia court ordered Taylor to pay $70,000 toward Iman Shumpert’s attorney fees after finding she violated the confidentiality terms of their 2024 divorce judgment. 

Teyana Taylor and Iman Shumpert's marriage ended in 2024 after nearly eight years together. They share two daughters, and although the divorce was finalized, the legal story did not immediately disappear.

In 2025, the former couple became embroiled in another dispute over confidential details from their divorce.

Taylor accused Shumpert of leaking information about their divorce to entertainment blogs. Shumpert denied the allegation. 

The court ultimately found Taylor in contempt for violating the confidentiality provisions of their divorce judgment, while finding insufficient evidence to establish that Shumpert had leaked the information.

The result?

Taylor was ordered to pay $70,000 toward Shumpert's legal fees.

And Taylor later described the payment as money well spent because she felt it bought her peace and an end to the dispute

“I Wasn’t Aware He Was Married” — Maria Chike Revisits the Question

Maria Chike has addressed the relationship controversy that once placed her at the centre of accusations that she had been involved with a married man.

Her position is straightforward: she said she did not know whether he was married when they started dating and insisted she had not destroyed a marriage.

In an interview with Chude Jideonwo, the former BBNaija housemate said she would stand by that account, adding that she did not destroy a marriage and would not do so.

The controversy dates back to 2021, when Cubana Chief Priest accused Maria of being involved with his sister's then-husband, Kelvin Anene. Maria subsequently denied that she had knowingly broken up a home.

What happens when two people enter the same relationship with completely different information?

For the public, the story can look simple: a woman was dating a married man.For Maria, according to her account, the information was different: she says she did not know he was married.

It moves the conversation from simply asking “Who was involved?” to asking “Who knew what, and when?”

Maria has continued to describe the matter as private and has said she does not owe the public every detail of her dating life.

The moral and emotional questions are completely different.This is why these stories become so difficult to discuss online.

The public wants a clean cast of characters:

the wife.

the husband.

the other woman.

the villain.

the victim.

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Perhaps the most important detail in a relationship story isn't who was with whom.It is who knew what—and when they knew it.

 If someone genuinely didn't know a person was married when they entered the relationship, does that change how you understand what happened?

If someone genuinely didn't know the person they were dating was married, when does responsibility begin — when the relationship starts, or when the truth is discovered?

Femi Dapson Takes Valentine’s Day Romance to Lekki Tollgates with Love Billboards for Simi Sanya

 

Nigerian music video producer Femi Dapson gave his fiancée, lifestyle content creator Simi Sanya, an unforgettable Valentine’s Day surprise by displaying romantic messages dedicated to her on digital billboards at the Lekki Phase 1 and Phase 2 toll plazas in Lagos.

On February 14, 2026, Dapson shared videos and photographs of the displays, explaining that a private message was not enough to express how much he loved her.

“Happy Valentine’s Day from me to my sweet baby, #simisanya. A private message wasn’t enough, I needed to shout it so everyone can see,” he wrote.

The billboard message included a declaration of love, gratitude for choosing him and a promise to spend the rest of his life making her happy.

Simi was clearly surprised by the gesture. Reacting on social media, she wrote: “When I saw this, I screamed! Didn’t see this coming, honestly. I love him soooooooo much. I love you, my baby!! You are amazing.” 

The public declaration was accompanied by other romantic touches, including a decorated scooter. Dapson's gesture turned parts of Lekki into a public Valentine’s Day love note, with motorists and passersby able to see the messages.

The couple got engaged in July 2025, followed by their family introduction in November that year. Their relationship has also attracted attention because of Dapson's elaborate expressions of affection. 

For Dapson, Valentine’s Day was an opportunity to make his love visible beyond a private celebration. And for Simi, it was a surprise she clearly did not see coming.

Would you prefer a private romantic surprise or having your partner put your love story on display for the whole of Lagos to see?