The actress revealed that while she was dating her former husband, she witnessed all the indicators of abuse, such as wrath and watching her every move, but she still chose to get married to him. She was speaking with the ladies of Your View on TVC about relationship red flags.
According to Foluke, her spouse pushed her into getting married too quickly because she felt pressured by her friends to do so.
The mother of two went on to say that on the night of her wedding, when her husband requested her to cut her sim, she broke it.
The Nollywood star also added that she couldn’t speak up about the abuse because she was worried about what people would do or say. She said:
It was also disclosed by Foluke, who is currently married to politician Kayode Salako, that she lost her virginity through rape.“When I wanted to enter my first marriage, the sign was there even though my partner was rushing me into marriage and I was like my friends were getting married.
All the signs were there. Anger issues. My first experience was on my wedding night. I got a broken sim because I had to change to a new sim.
I saw the signs of abuse and anger but I overlooked them. I had to stay there because of what people would say.”
Because of this, she started to hate having sex and considered it as a punishment, but her first husband didn't care and wanted it constantly. She viewed having sex as "beating," and she dreaded returning home.
The mother of two went on to say that on the night of her wedding, when her husband requested her to cut her sim, she broke it.
In her words:
“I lost my virginity through rape, so sex to me was punishment and the person I got married to wanted it every time. It felt like he was beating me.”
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