Shaffy Bello Akinrimisi in a chat with Stephanie Coker on the ‘Me, Her & Everything Else podcast, Shaffy said that even though a man is meant to provide for the home, a woman should also assist financially.
Shaffy said she will not “demote” herself to be a stay-at-home wife, or date a man who will not allow her to work.
“I think a man was raised to be a provider. To be the one; the king. If you are the king, usually people go to the king for direction,” she said.
“So as a woman, I want to have my own. So that way, I can be of help when you need me. But I must have my own. I can not date a man who says stop working.
“But to be honest with you, even if you are a billionaire and you put me in a hole, I still have to do something. Because the reason you fell in love with me is because of who I am now. So I am not going to demote myself because of that.”
She also stated that being a responsible and hardworking woman is, in fact, an appealing quality, as opposed to being constantly dependent and entitled.
“I would tell the ladies, never tell a man, ‘Why are you asking me what do I bring to the table?’ I’m sorry, I’m not one of those; I think we both should ask ourselves, ‘What are we bringing to the table.’
If he’s bringing something to the table, you should bring something to the table. I don’t want to marry a liability if I was a man. As a matter of fact, you look more attractive that way. You can’t just be needy, that’s not attractive”.
Shaffy Bello grew up in Nigeria but moved to the United States of America in 1987 where she completed her education; she celebrates her birthday every October 9th. The excellent screen goddess got the spotlight when she first shot into the entertainment scene when she featured vocals in a 1997 hit song by Seyi Sodimu titled “Love Me Jeje”. Her appearance in the hit song which enjoyed massive air-play soon endeared her to Nigerian music lovers at the time, but alas, without warning, Bello soon went off the entertainment radar, to the dismay of many. Years later, the talented actress returned to our screens with a bang, this time as a more matured and gorgeous woman. Shaffy Bello who can be called a risk taker
Recall that socialite, Yhemolee popped the ‘what do women bring to the table‘ question during the Bahd and Boujee podcast session hosted by Moet Abebe and Tolanibaj.
The women expressed disdain for the question, however, Tolanibaj spoke about the characteristics of female body parts, emphasizing them as an important aspect of relationships.
She said, “I bring my sweet and succulent pu$$y”.
Meanwhile, Moet Abebe, named her brains as what she brought to the table, however, she still included the pussy.
Their answers sparked a debate with controversial social media investigator, Verydarkman stating that women bring nothing to the table but invest more in their bodies.
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Initially, it looked like movie lovers didn’t approve of her, following her sudden disappearance in the ’90s but she remained determined and continued to make great movies.
Looking back now, Bello has morphed into a sought-after actress and a household name who has become a darling to a lot of movie lovers globally, with a teaming fan base numbering millions.
She got her first major role in a Yoruba film “Eti Keta” and has since become a force to reckon with in several roles in both Yoruba and English movies.
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