**Ifedayo Agoro's Brave Decision to Call Off Her Wedding: A Story of Self-Discovery**
Ifedayo Agoro, known on X as Ìfẹ́@diaryofa9jagirl, has courageously shared her journey of calling off her wedding just two months before the big day. In a heartfelt post, she revealed that despite already securing a venue, hiring a popular comedian and musician, and purchasing a Vera Wang wedding dress, she chose to prioritize her well-being over societal expectations.
At 30, Ife realized she was succumbing to pressure to conform to the belief that women should be married by a certain age. Ultimately, she recognized that her then-fiancé was a pathological liar, leading her to conclude that the marriage would not be built on a foundation of trust. Her story serves as an inspiring reminder that true happiness comes from making choices aligned with one’s values and desires.
Read her post and replies below…
“Broke off my engagement two months to the wedding. Hall paid for, popular comedian paid for, part payment for popular musician paid for. Vera Wang wedding dress paid for.
Broke things off without thinking of all that and returned everyone’s aso ebi money. I was getting married for the wrong reasons and I just couldn’t continue. I made one of the best decisions of my life.”
She continued after an X user asked to share more about the broken engagement:
“Because I was going to clock 30 and I don’t know who put it in my head that I had to be married at that time or it would be socially unacceptable to be unmarried at 30.
When I complained to an older friend that it didn’t feel right because not only was I not in love but I had no rest in my spirit, she said I’d fall in love inside the marriage but to never let 30 pass me by. So I stayed despite the fact that he was a pathological liar and extremely untrustworthy.”
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