Wednesday, 28 January 2026

Davido asks Chioma, for approval to be pampered by Ghanaian woman




Davido has requested that his wife Chioma republish a video of streamer IShowSpeed that became viral. According to reports, the well-known American streamer is currently in Ghana as part of his African Tour after visiting Nigeria last week. A video shows a group of Ghanaian women massaging the streamer. Seeking his wife's approval, Davido posted the video on his Instagram story, seemingly enjoying it.


Davido, who seemed to like the video, shared it on his Instagram story as he sought his wife’s approval.

“@thecheftchi oh boy, my darling wife, pls permit me? This nah Ghana”.

Earlier this year, during their vacation, Davido had lamented over his wife’s constant habit of eating his food. The singer said Chioma has been doing this to him for 13 years.

A while back, Chioma shared a photo of the bouquet of flowers her husband gifted her, as she appreciated him for the sweet gesture.

Cubana Chief Priest professes love for wife in new song as she marks birthday

If you need any evidence of how romantic a celebrity barman and socialite, Cubana Chief Priest, is, then his birthday tribute to his wife, Angel, is all you need. In celebration of his wife’s birthday today, Davido’s best friend has released a song for her. Cubana Chief Priest celebrates wife birthday



 In his caption, Chief Priest said that all he wanted to say to her was in a song. 

Pouring adulation on her, he prayed that God would bless her and declared that the next ten years would be love. “Happy Birthday To My Wife @_deangels Everything I Want To Say Here As A Caption I Put It Up In A Song. The Link In My Bio. God Bless & Keep You Babe. Asa Nwa Golibe Na Oruru Gi. The Next Ten Years To Come Is”. Cubana Chief Priest celebrates wife birthday 4 days ago, the couple celebrated their 10th wedding anniversary with a lovely family video. While counting down to his wife’s birthday, made it known that he was going crãzy on her.


 According to him, his wife changed his life for good and believed in him when he had nothing. On his wife’s birthday eve last year, Cubana had surprised her with a luxury Hermes bag. The socialite told her to use all the expensive items on earth since it wouldn’t matter in heaven. On her birthday, the father of boys had penned a sweet note to her, describing her as his everything and assured her that he

“I have only 1 wife and plenty babymamas” – Portable clarifies as he prays for more money

 

Controversial si

nger Portable has clarified his relationship status for the public. In a recent post on his Instagram page, the street artist announced that he has one wife but several baby mamas, emphasizing that his focus is on making money. “I have one wife, and I’m looking for money. O block Sango. One wife, plenty baby mamas. Zazuu, I don get wife; na money I dey look for. O Block Sango.” Portable is currently married to Bewaji, with whom he shares three children. In total, he has four kids from three different women. 



His first baby mama remains unknown, while his second is named Keji, and his third is actress Ashabi, who has two children with him.

“How time flies” – Tobi Makinde shares beautiful moments from his traditional wedding as he celebrates one-month tradiversary

 Nollywood actor Tobi Makinde is joyfully celebrating his one-month anniversary with his wife. Late last year, it was reported that the star of "Jenifa's Diary" tied the knot with his beloved.

To commemorate their first month as a married couple, Tobi shared a clip from their traditional wedding, reflecting on how quickly time has passed. He expressed his gratitude, stating that God is involved in their journey together.

“I love you more than mangoes and corn,” Obi Cubana’s wife, Ebinna, expressed her affection for him in a heartfelt post.

Ebinna Iyiegbu, the wife of businessman Obi Cubana, recently shared a heartfelt note to him. The mother of boys posted on her Instagram page, sharing photos of their family and describing Obi as the love of her life, the light of her life, and her "baby boo." Ebinna expressed that her love for him surpasses her fondness for mango and corn.



 “Love of my life! Light of my life! My baby boo! Love you more than Mango and Corn @obi_cubana”. Reacting to the post, Obi Cubana wrote, “See as you lapara on my Obi, chai”. Obi Cubana's wife profess love for him A few days back, Obi Cubana, while sharing lovely photos of himself and his wife, declared her as his source of guaranteed happiness and peace of mind. Back in June, Cubana and his wife had celebrated their 17th wedding anniversary.



 Sharing a clip of them over the years, Obi stated that it had been 17 years of loving, peace of mind, happiness, and prosperity. He appreciated his wife for the prayers she offered, for raising their boys, for loving him unconditionally, and for all the sacrifices she made for the family.

“Such joy you’ve brought into our lives” – Ali Baba’s wife, Mary Akpobome, celebrates triplets as they turn 2

 

Mary Akpobome, the
wife of ace comedian Ali Baba, is celebrating their triplets as they turn 2 today. Sharing photos of them, she noted how they’ve brought joy into their lives and affirmed love for them.

 The proud mother showered her mini-mes with prayers. 

 “Happy 2nd Birthday, My Princes – Kings & Priests. Such Joy You Have Brought Into Our Lives. May The Lord Continue To Bless & Protect You. I Love You, My Little Men! Thank You @2luvphotography For The Lovely Photos”. 


 Mary Akpobome celebrates triplets 3rd birthday Following the birth of her triplets, Mary had penned a letter to the late Ibidunni Ighodalo, telling her they finally did it as she had welcomed triplets-boys, who she described as handsome. She assured her that they would know all about her and the encouragement she gave her. 


She promised always to remember her warm smile and the highs she always gave her. Recall that on the 1st of April 2024, Alibaba announced the birth of his triplets. His Instagram comment section was filled with doubt as many believed he was trying to prank them like the other celebrities who marked the month with fake pregnancy photos and child pictures.

“The diet is working” – Chizzy Alichi shows off postpartum body after welcoming first child

 


Nollywood actress Chizzy Alichi is slowly getting back her body after welcoming her first child. The mother of one, via her Instagram page, shared a video of her banging body, revealing that she is gradually getting her body back. Alichi expressed excitement that her dieting is working. “We are gradually getting our body back. The diet is working. Clock it”. 






She described the experience as the most difficult time in her life as she recounted her pregnancy ordeal. In October, the actress and her husband, Chike Mbah, dedicated their son to God. The couple threw a lavish dedication reception, attended by Rita Dominic, Nasty Blaq, Charles Okocha, Peggy Ovire, Nancy Isime, Medlin Boss, Uche Elendu, and others.

Saturday, 24 January 2026

Kristy Scott files for DIVORCE

 



Bisola Borha Arigbe bags DWP Insider 2025 POWER LIST MENTION

 


Buys me bags ,gifts,and clothes - Obi Jackson daughter on her mother in law benevolence

 



Friday, 16 January 2026

Nancy Umeh Opens Up on Surrogacy Journey in BBC Interview

 


Nancy Umeh recently shared a video interview with the BBC on Facebook, where she spoke candidly about her deeply personal journey through surrogacy. Nancy Umeh, a content creator and Founder of Radiance Cookware, boldly opened up to netizens last year after welcoming her third child through a surrogate mother. Her decision to share her story publicly stirred conversations around motherhood, loss, resilience, and alternative paths to having children. Nancy Umeh Opens Up on Surrogacy Journey in BBC Interview In the interview with BBC, Nancy revealed that she had suffered eight miscarriages, explaining that her body could no longer carry a pregnancy to term.


 Faced with this painful reality, she and her husband were left with one option – surrogacy. However, this choice came at an extremely high financial cost, one that tested their resolve but ultimately gave them another chance at parenthood. Throughout the interview, Nancy repeatedly expressed profound gratitude to the woman who carried her child. She described the surrogate as an angel, saying she wished she had the opportunity to meet her in person and properly thank her for giving her the gift of motherhood once again. 


 Nancy Umeh’s third child, TamTam, who turned one last year, has since become a source of immense joy. Nancy frequently shares beautiful moments of TamTam with her followers, and it is evident that the little girl is a delight to behold. Nancy Umeh Opens Up on Surrogacy Journey in BBC Interview The BBC interview, hosted by Charles Gitonga, also featured family lawyer Eliud Agugi, who shed light on the legal gaps surrounding surrogacy in Africa. Together, they discussed the urgent need for clear laws that protect both surrogate mothers and commissioning parents, while preventing the exploitation and commercialization of women’s bodies. Overall, the conversation was thoughtful, emotional, and highly insightful, offering a balanced perspective on surrogacy, its challenges, and the safeguards needed within the African context. You can watch the full episode on BBC Africa YouTube below. https://youtu.be/ZHZ30YDJdzQ

Singer L.A.X Takes Next Step as He Proposes to Longtime Girlfriend

 


 Damilola Abdulrasheed Afolayan, popularly known as L.A.X, has taken a major step in his personal life after proposing to his longtime girlfriend, a moment that has since sparked excitement among fans and colleagues within the entertainment industry. The proposal became public after photos and short clips surfaced online showing the singer sharing an intimate and celebratory moment with his partner. 


While L.A.X kept details of his relationship away from the spotlight, the proposal marks a rare and joyful glimpse into his private life, instantly drawing attention across social media platforms. L.A.X, who rose to prominence after signing with Starboy Entertainment early in his career, has built a reputation for smooth melodies and consistent hits. Songs like Ginger, Go Low, and Sempe have earned him a loyal fan base, making the announcement of his engagement a trending topic among music lovers who have followed his journey over the years. Although the singer did not immediately issue a lengthy public statement, sources close to him confirmed that the proposal was a well-planned and meaningful moment, reflecting the length and depth of the couple’s relationship. Fans noted the relaxed and emotional atmosphere of the proposal, interpreting it as a reflection of genuine affection rather than a staged celebrity moment. 



Gospel singer Frank Edwards cautions stingy men

 


Frank Edwards warned people to avoid being stingy. He also stated that stingy people give the most advice to generous people on how to give. 


 The gospel singer took to X to write: "Don’t be the guy that money never leaves you except it’s stolen from you or you misplaced it . That is Harvard level stinginess… "And those kinds of people will use advice finish you on how to give."

Wife of former Biafra leader Bianca Ojukwu shares recreated old family photo with her late husband and children

Wife of former Biafra leader Bianca Ojukwu shares recreated old family photo with her late husband and children The wife of late Biafran leader, Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu, shared a recreated AI version of an old family photograph showing herself, her late husband, and their children. Watch video below…

AFCON 2025: Actor Kunle Remi reveals bet with his wife as he embraces his new life following Super Eagles lost

 

Kunle Remi has revealed his best with his wife after the Super Eagles lost in the 2025 AFCON. Jaiyeorie reported on Wednesday that the Hosts of the 2025 Africa Cup of Nations, Morocco, defeated Nigeria 4-2 in a penalty shoot-out. Atlas Lions’ goalkeeper, Yassine Bounou, was the hero for the country with 2 saves. 



 Kunle revealed in an Instagram post that he had made a bet with his wife. According to him, he and his wife agree that if Nigeria wins, he will do nothing in the house till the next AFCON, but if they lose, he will live and sleep in the kitchen.



 Since the Super Eagles lost, it is clear Kunle will be living and sleeping in the kitchen from now on. “The bet was simple. If Nigeria wins, I do nothing in the house till the next AFCON. And if Morocco wins, I will live and sleep in the kitchen. Oh well. Say hi to my new luxurious kitchen space. PS: I still love the Super Eagles”.

Nigerian Mum Shares Why She’s Yet To Remarry Since Her Divorce

 

A Nigerian woman, Seun Obajolu, has listed the reasons she hasn’t remarried since her divorce. In a Facebook post on Thursday, October 23, the US-based mental health care provider said one of the main reasons she is hesitant about remarrying is her sense of responsibility towards her children, adding that she is worried about their emotional wellbeing and safety if a new man enters their life. While admitting that marriage is no longer a priority for her, the beautiful momma said she would remarry if everything seems “right” for her and she feels “safe” 




 She stated that the decision would be made with her eyes, head and heart intact and not just on emotions alone. She wrote: RE-MARRIAGE after divorce. Someone asked me recently why I haven’t remarried since my divorce, especially since my Ex had remarried not long after.. even hinting that “maybe I might have been the problem” …. Wahala oooo. And while I am not here to accept or refute that I was the “problem” or point accusatory fingers…because many years after, following series of retrospection. I have come to accept that when divorce happens, it’s usually not from a “lone” incident but a gradual progression of issues which eventually boils over and leads to “those irreconcilable differences people often speak about”.

 In hindsight, as part of my healing and moving forward especially taking some accountability, I have delved into some areas in which I would handle some things a little bit differently if that same situation ever presented itself again. But that’s not the reason for this post…. So why haven’t I remarried? Hmmmm I’d say probably the same reason a lot of other women with children who went through divorce as I did haven’t remarried yet… but I’ll speak for me , maybe one person can relate. And here are a few pointers – I speak my truth! Healing takes time and is different for everyone. And personally, I have always wanted to heal to a point where I feel “stable” enough to venture into such a very life changing situation, yet again. I needed TIME to REBUILD- contrary to some opinion, not everyone gets rich from divorce… some have to pick up and rebuild pieces of their lives again especially if you now have children in your care who are dependent on you.



 For me, I had to go back to school so I could further advance in my chosen career path and be able to earn more… NO- it was NOT to pepper anyone as some insinuated. I am now much older and wiser so I actually have become way more strategic about whom I choose to have as a life partner… so yes, I am pickier and this definitely has impacted some of my decisions along the way. My children became my utmost PRIORITY- when something as “unfortunate” as divorce happened. While it might be “easier” for the man to move on, it’s always not as easy for the woman because somehow we redirect ALL to raising the children. You become more concerned about how the children turn out because after all, a child who turns out good is labeled as a child of her father while the one who turns out the other way, is labeled her “mother’s child” ….. SO YES, most of my gaze has been on my children…. They became forefront at most of my decision making… Now I am worried about their emotional wellbeing and safety if I do remarry, I worry about how to balance being a wife to this new man in my life and mothering my children so everyone feels loved with no one feeling ignored. Marriage no longer became a PRIORITY- While I do LOVE the idea of Marriage, ACKNOWLEGDE and APPRECIATE that TWO HEADS WOULD ALWAYS BE BETTER THAN ONE….. I do have some cold feet about dabbling into marriage again. Would I do it again if all seems “right” for me and I feel “safe” enough? ABSOLUTELY… But it would be a decision made with my eyes, head and heart intact and not just on emotions alone… And if I honestly never got married again, I would be CONTENT and FULFILLED with my life at the end. And here are some of the reasons I haven’t remarried after divorce. 




Thank you for coming to my TedTalk.”

Thursday, 15 January 2026

Nollywood actor Frederick Leonard has left many talking with his birthday post to his colleague, Sarian Martin.

The husband of Peggy Ovire, via his Instagram page, described the fast-rising actress as his darling and property. Calling her a shining star, he rained prayers on her. Frederick Leonard celebrates Sarian Martin





 “My Salo Baby.. My PROPERTY ‼️ You are a Shining Star May God continue to bless and increase you in all Areas. HAPPY BIRTHDAY Darling @official_queensari”. Frederick Leonard celebrates Sarian Martin See reactions below, 


 hon_carolina wrote, “Property? 


  Beatriceerukpe wrote, “Na really your property


zynnyfamilyshowtv wrote, “Property kwa. 


 emel_dozie wrote, “If you’re their fans, you will understand what he meant by ‘my property'”.

"Please I am single. Link me up with any of your congregants who are responsible and Godfearing."- Comedian Princess appelas to Nigerian clergymen

In a video posted on her Instagram page, she appealed to Pastor Jerry Eze, Apostle Selman, Bolaji Idowu, Femi Lazarus, and others to connect her with a suitable partner from their churches. Princess tells pastors she's single 



In a candid video, she shared that she is single and divorced, and after years of praying, fasting, and healing, she feels ready to take real steps towards marriage. She appealed to the pastors to back prayers with action by recommending kind, responsible men in their 40s or early 50s who are serious about commitment. Princess also made it clear she won’t be shamed for speaking openly about wanting love and companionship, saying her message comes from a place of honesty, faith, and readiness to love again. “Nigerian Pastors like Jerry Eze, Bolaji Idowu, Femi Lazarus, etc, always preach that we should pray, fast and back it up with action




. I have prayed, and now I am taking action by speaking out. I need a kind and responsible man to marry. I am tired. I must be married in 2026 If you have good men in your church who are in their 40s or 50s, please send their handles to my DM. They can be widowers or divorcees but not separated. If you have me in your life, it is a blessing. As I have spoken out now in January, I expect to be engaged by September. If you mock me, God will judge you”.Nigerian comedian Princess has cried out to Nigerian clergymen over her single status.

Adekunle Gold and Simi are celebrating their 7th wedding anniversary.

 

Taking the lead, Adekunle stated how seven years ago, he married his best friend, and since then, every year has been gentler than the last. Adekunle Gold and Simi celebrate 7th wedding anniversary Adekunle noted how they’ve laughed hard, grown deeply, prayed sincerely, and chosen each other again and again. And through it all, loving her has been the easiest and most beautiful decision of his life. “My Baby. 7 years… You’re still the one. I’m grateful for the joy and peace you bring to my life. I remember when we were still dating and a friend asked me, “Why him?” I said, “We just fit.” We still fit. You see me. You’re mindful of me. You love me.


 You know I’m not a gentlelady. I’m a fighter but thank you for not letting me have to fight to be seen and loved. Thank you for being a good man, because those are hard to come by. Thank you for taking care of me. Thank you for being worth the sacrifice it takes to be a wife and a mommy. I love you. Husband of my youth. Ka pe fun ra wa loruko Jesu”. 





 Adekunle Gold and Simi celebrate 7th wedding anniversary Simi stated that Adekunle is still the one, even after seven years have passed. She expressed gratitude for the joy and peace he brings into her life and recalled how a friend asked her why she chose him; she said they fit, and they still do. Simi noted how Adekunle is mindful of her, loves her, and allows her fight to be seen and loved. She appreciated him for being a good man, taking care of her, and being worth the sacrifice. Calling him the husband of her youth, she affirmed her love for him. “Seven years ago, I married my best friend. And somehow, every year since then has been gentler than the last. We’ve laughed hard, grown deeply, prayed sincerely, and chosen each other again and again. And through it all, loving you has been the easiest, most beautiful decision of my life. 7 years in and my heart still knows where it belongs. I love you, Simi”.

Faithia Williams and Saidi Balogun at late Allwell Ademola’s Service of Songs

 

Faithia Williams and Saidi Balogun have melted the hearts of fans with their sweet moment at their colleague, Allwell Ademola’s Service of SongsFaithia Williams and Saidi Balogun In a clip from the event that is making the rounds online, Saidi and Faithia were captured in a rare conversation.


 In the clip, Faithia was sitting with a group of women who were in charge of the drinks and snacks at the SOS. Saidi was captured standing beside her as they conversed. One Toyin adi wrote, “Love them, Balogun One olawalewilliams wrote, “This family really stood with Allwell One Temitope_ola_olorun wrote, “Mature couple”. Saidi and Faithia got married in 2000 at Ikorodu registry and divorced fourteen years later. Their divorce was quite messy, and Saidi, who told the court that he could not live under the same roof with his estranged wife due to irreconcilable differences, also demanded, among other requests, that Faithia drop his name, Balogun. 


 The former couple share 2 kids – Khalid and Aliyah. In 2024, the former couple finally made peace, as for the first time in years, Saidi sent a sweet birthday note to Faithia, showering her with love and prayers. Faithia had also done the same as she sweetly celebrated Saidi Balogun’s birthday. Faithia fueled reconciliation rumors with him as she referred to herself by her former married name, Faithia Balogun. The Yoruba actress shocked many when she addressed herself with her former marital title, Faithia Williams Balogun. When Saidi lost his first daughter in October, Faithia had taken a break from social media to mourn.




 When she returned, she made a post gushing over the deceased and appreciated the public for their support. When Faithia also buried her father in July, Saidi showed his support and attended the burial ceremony where he was captured raining money on her. To add to it, when Saidi’s son celebrated his induction, Faithia congratulated him on his new feat and prayed for him.

Tuesday, 13 January 2026

‘Marriage Is An Achievement’ – Nigerian Widow Tells Her Own Reality As She Remarries

 #jaiyeorie 





A Canada-based Nigerian woman who remarried five years after her husband’s death, has described marriage as a significant achievement.

Temmy Omoileriwho disclosed this on Christmas Day, shared photos from her wedding ceremony, saying that nothing comes close to the feeling of being loved and to love.

The healthcare worker wrote,

“I was a widow last Christmas. Married to my love this year and I’m celebrating this Christmas as a married woman. As long as I live on earth, I want to do right by you my love. It feels good to be loved and to love. Marriage is an achievement!! I achieved this in 2025.” 

Reacting to criticisms that trailed her assertion that ‘marriage is an achievement’, Temmy reiterated her stance, saying that after spending five years alone, there is no substitute for the feeling of waking up beside her husband, eating meals together, holding hands, going on long trips and making plans.

According to her, no matter how successful a person is, a dildo cannot replace the emotional and physical intimacy of a human partner.

She continued:

“Have you seen The Bucket List? If not, watch it. Then come back and tell me if you still think marriage isn’t an achievement. I’ve spent five years sleeping alone on a top-tier Tempur-Pedic mattress.

I can roll around under beautiful blankets all I want, but the bed still feels empty. Luxury is vague and hollow without a soft touch, an intentional cuddle, or a random kiss. There is no substitute for the feeling of waking up and knowing someone is there to share a coffee and a life with you.

Let’s be honest: I don’t want to discuss my next mortgage with a friend who might secretly resent my success. I want a man by my side—a partner who is brainstorming the next move with me. When I see a car I love, I want to ask, “When are we buying this?” Going on a long drive alone isn’t “sweet.” It’s quiet. Too quiet.

Real joy feels like heaven, and it looks like this: * Exchanging driving shifts on a long trip.

* Holding hands and random caresses while viewing the mountains.

* Taking pictures and eating meals together.

* Planning beach visits for the summer. We all feel the void of loneliness, yet we pretend we don’t. Stop living in a delusional state.

“No matter how successful or “comfortable” you are, a dildo cannot embrace you or give you a deep kiss. Touching yourself isn’t empowerment; it’s stressful.


My world is too quiet when I’m driving alone. Even the music makes more sense when he’s in the passenger seat. That is my reality, and it is highly therapeutic. 2026 is coming. Don’t stay closed-minded. Be open, and let that joy come crashing at your doorstep. I love you all.


✍️“feel free to disagree in the comments 👀 ☝️👆 & let JAIYEORIE know what U think!” 📎

Monday, 12 January 2026

Yvonne Jegede Describes Marriage As ‘Overrated’ As She Reveals Reason She’s Not Seeking Remarriage

 Yvonne Jegede has disclosed that she is not actively seeking to remarry.

The mother of one, in a recent interview with Naija FM Lagos, described marriage as “overrated,” citing instances where long-term couples break up shortly after tying the knot.

She stated that a couple could date for years without issues. However, once married, they begin having problems due to marital expectations.

However, she stated that she’s open to remarriage but isn’t actively seeking it, emphasising that she’s learned not to say “never.”




She said:

“I think marriage is overrated. I have seen a lot of people who dated for 10 to 15 years, got married, and then broke up within 2 to 3 years. Sometimes, you wonder why such couples didn’t just remain unmarried. Because when they add the marriage tag, a lot of intolerance gets in the way.”

Yvonne went on the state that while she is not shutting the door completely on marriage, she has learned not to force it or place it at the centre of her happiness.


“If it comes, but I’m not looking for it. I have learned not to say never,” she noted.

She also talked about how people become intolerant after getting married. She added:

“A lot of intolerance dey. The wife will be claiming her rights, the husband will do the same.”

Yvonne suggested everybody should do what makes them happy. The single mum stated: happy and what works for you. And if you find the person you like, make una just dey.”

The Nollywood star suggested that cohabiting might be a better option, allowing couples to avoid the added pressures that come with marriage.


“I think it is better to find who you love and just cohabit with them,” she added.

The actress was previously married to actor and film producer Olakunle ‘Abounce’ Fawole, but the marriage ended in 2019, less than a year after it began. The union produced a son.

Nigerian Woman Who Got Married To A Breadwinner At 18 Shares Her Nasty Experience With Her Sisters In-law

 A Nigerian woman, Anabel Oluebube, who got married at the age of 18 to an extended family’s breadwinner has shared her unbelievable marital experience.

Anabel shared her experience while reacting to a post by a Nigerian lady, Okafor Oluchukwu, who narrated how her sister-in-law used to flog her in the early years of marriage.

Sharing her experience as an 18-year-old wife, Anabel revealed that her husband was the breadwinner and his sisters didn’t hesitate to remind her that she came into their family with nothing.

According to Anabel, she wasn’t allowed to share food after cooking or make separate meal for herself. She added that when serving the food, they will take the big sizes of meat and leave her with little or none.

She said the women literally swore that they won’t allow her enjoy her marriage. Anabel went further to advise young girls to be financially and emotionally independent before settling down.



See her full post below…

“You people should stop doubting that lady that said that her sis in-law was flogging her when she newly got married.

My own experience as a 18 year old girl that got married to an extended family’s breadwinner was almost the same! This is why you will always see me condemn early marriage.

I remember when my husband will give me money to cook for the whole family and my sis in-laws will tell me that they are the one to share the food when I’m done cooking.

They will take the big sizes of meat and leave me with little or none!

I dare not cook a separate meal for myself cox every meal must be for the family and that’s where I MUST eat from. If I complain they will ask me how much I came with from Ọzụbụlụ to Ihiala when I married their brother.

Even after my first child, it continued that made me fight with one of them and I nearly comot her front teeth!

They literally swore that I won’t enjoy my marriage then oooo!

Thank God for growth and where I am now…e remain for them to address me as “her excellency ma” because it’s no longer the Anabel they use to know!!And they dare not try it again cox my first son fit handle all of them for me.

I have forgiven them but I made sure that the boundaries I set are still there!

Getting married to a man because he is a good man is not enough! What about his family?

Be up to 23 and financially independent before you marry any Adam please.”

Toke Makinwa Speaks On The Effect Of Having A Baby When “You’re Ready, At Peace And In God’s Perfect Timing”

  Toke Makinwa has shared new photos of herself while speaking on the importance of right timing when having a baby.

According to the TV host and vlogger who welcomed her first child last year August after celebrating her 40th birthday, having a baby when you are ready, at peace, in God’s perfect timing and with the right spouse makes your glow up unmatched.

The super mum wrote on Instagram:

“Don’t tell anyone, but having a baby when you’re ready, at peace, and in God’s perfect timing makes your glow up unmatched. And…with the right person too oooo.

“I highly recommend.

“May the glow up stay forever. Say amen if you’re not a hater.”


Miriam Ogbonna Sparks Debate Over Having Kids In The First Year Of Marriage

 Miriam Ogbonna shared her thoughts on marriage and family planning.

In a post she shared on her social media handle, the movie star said she doesn’t think it’s wise to have a child during the first year of marriage.

According to her, the first year of marriage should be for the couple getting to know each other better, and bringing a child into the mix too soon could be overwhelming for a new union.


She wrote:

“I don’t think it’s wise to have a child during the first year of marriage though. I feel that’s the time to get to know your partner better.

Bringing a child into the mix could stall that process and might be too overwhelming for the new union. Just my opinion though…”

Miriam’s tweet sparked mixed reactions online. While some agreed, noting that a child in the first year can dramatically change your life, others felt it depends on individual circumstances, like cultural expectations or personal goals.

One married man added that unless couples have lived together for at least a year, it’s better to spend the first year focusing on each other before welcoming a child.

I Am No Longer Scared Of Marriage – Actress Kiitan Bukola Opens Up Following Broken Engagement

 Nollywood actress, Kiitan Bukola has shared insights on her career, personal growth, and why she’s now open to marriage.




In November 2022, the Yoruba actress had announced her engagement on her Instagram page. Unfortunately, the couple never got to walk down the aisle as they parted ways over undisclosed reasons.

However, in an interview with her colleague, Debbie Shokoya in 2024, Kiitan recalled how she caught her fiancé with another woman when he was sick.

She went further to reveal her fears about getting married, and what she hopes to find in a partner. She said her fear stems from her desire to provide her children with a stable and loving home, which she never had.

Fast forward to 2026, the movie star disclosed to PUNCH that she’s now open to marriage. In her words:

“I am no longer scared of marriage. I believe everyone has their own timing. I love family, and I see marriage as a beautiful journey when built on mutual respect and self-awareness. Personal growth is key before committing to such a lifelong partnership.”

What character or role have you played that best represents the real Kiitan Bukola?

I would say the character that best represents me is a blend of being selfless, a go-getter, a lane minder, and a prayer warrior. These are qualities I carry, not just on screen but in real life. I believe in giving my best to every project, supporting others, and staying spiritually grounded.

These traits influence how I approach my career and relate with people off-screen. Being empathetic helps me collaborate better; being a go-getter pushes me to pursue opportunities with determination; and staying in my lane keeps me focused on my craft without unnecessary distractions.

Above all, prayer keeps me centered and helps me navigate the pressures of the industry.

What are some of the most interesting challenges you’ve faced in your career?

One of the most memorable experiences was acting alongside legends I grew up watching. It was intimidating at first, but I reminded myself that they were professionals just like me.

Instead of shrinking, I embraced the opportunity, observed closely, learnt, and gave my best. That experience taught me confidence and the importance of confronting fear.

Another major challenge came with transitioning into filmmaking. Acting and producing require different skill sets—managing a crew, planning schedules, and overseeing storytelling. It was demanding but rewarding, and it reinforced the value of preparation, patience, and staying true to one’s vision.

Have you always been passionate about acting?

Yes, acting has been a passion since childhood. I participated in school plays and felt a deep sense of fulfilment each time I performed. Even then, it was more than a hobby; I was learning how to embody characters and express emotions.

I was also fascinated by storytelling—how films could move people, teach lessons, and spark conversations. That curiosity led me to study acting formally, and eventually, to a professional career. Loving what you do, I believe, is the foundation of excellence.

As a filmmaker and producer, how do you choose the stories you bring to life?ers from what I observe around me. I’m drawn to stories that educate, inspire, and provoke thought. Filmmaking goes beyond entertainment; it’s about impact and legacy.

I look for stories that are timeless, relatable, and emotionally engaging. Every project must feel meaningful and have the potential to positively influence its audience.

Do you feel pressure to constantly reinvent yourself?

Not at all. I don’t see my career as a race or competition. I work at my own pace and prioritize quality over quantity. Reinvention should come from personal growth, not external pressure.

I focus on improving my craft, exploring new genres, and choosing roles that challenge me. That way, each project feels authentic and purposeful.

How do you draw boundaries with intimacy scenes in Nollywood?

Acting is make-believe, but I have firm boundaries. I won’t do anything pornographic or expose myself in ways that make me uncomfortable.

That’s why reading scripts thoroughly is crucial—it allows me to assess what I’m comfortable with and communicate clearly.

Understanding the purpose of a scene helps me approach it professionally without compromising my values. Comfort and professionalism must go hand in hand.