Miriam Ogbonna Sparks Debate Over Having Kids In The First Year Of Marriage

 Miriam Ogbonna shared her thoughts on marriage and family planning.

In a post she shared on her social media handle, the movie star said she doesn’t think it’s wise to have a child during the first year of marriage.

According to her, the first year of marriage should be for the couple getting to know each other better, and bringing a child into the mix too soon could be overwhelming for a new union.


She wrote:

“I don’t think it’s wise to have a child during the first year of marriage though. I feel that’s the time to get to know your partner better.

Bringing a child into the mix could stall that process and might be too overwhelming for the new union. Just my opinion though…”

Miriam’s tweet sparked mixed reactions online. While some agreed, noting that a child in the first year can dramatically change your life, others felt it depends on individual circumstances, like cultural expectations or personal goals.

One married man added that unless couples have lived together for at least a year, it’s better to spend the first year focusing on each other before welcoming a child.

I Am No Longer Scared Of Marriage – Actress Kiitan Bukola Opens Up Following Broken Engagement

 Nollywood actress, Kiitan Bukola has shared insights on her career, personal growth, and why she’s now open to marriage.




In November 2022, the Yoruba actress had announced her engagement on her Instagram page. Unfortunately, the couple never got to walk down the aisle as they parted ways over undisclosed reasons.

However, in an interview with her colleague, Debbie Shokoya in 2024, Kiitan recalled how she caught her fiancé with another woman when he was sick.

She went further to reveal her fears about getting married, and what she hopes to find in a partner. She said her fear stems from her desire to provide her children with a stable and loving home, which she never had.

Fast forward to 2026, the movie star disclosed to PUNCH that she’s now open to marriage. In her words:

“I am no longer scared of marriage. I believe everyone has their own timing. I love family, and I see marriage as a beautiful journey when built on mutual respect and self-awareness. Personal growth is key before committing to such a lifelong partnership.”

What character or role have you played that best represents the real Kiitan Bukola?

I would say the character that best represents me is a blend of being selfless, a go-getter, a lane minder, and a prayer warrior. These are qualities I carry, not just on screen but in real life. I believe in giving my best to every project, supporting others, and staying spiritually grounded.

These traits influence how I approach my career and relate with people off-screen. Being empathetic helps me collaborate better; being a go-getter pushes me to pursue opportunities with determination; and staying in my lane keeps me focused on my craft without unnecessary distractions.

Above all, prayer keeps me centered and helps me navigate the pressures of the industry.

What are some of the most interesting challenges you’ve faced in your career?

One of the most memorable experiences was acting alongside legends I grew up watching. It was intimidating at first, but I reminded myself that they were professionals just like me.

Instead of shrinking, I embraced the opportunity, observed closely, learnt, and gave my best. That experience taught me confidence and the importance of confronting fear.

Another major challenge came with transitioning into filmmaking. Acting and producing require different skill sets—managing a crew, planning schedules, and overseeing storytelling. It was demanding but rewarding, and it reinforced the value of preparation, patience, and staying true to one’s vision.

Have you always been passionate about acting?

Yes, acting has been a passion since childhood. I participated in school plays and felt a deep sense of fulfilment each time I performed. Even then, it was more than a hobby; I was learning how to embody characters and express emotions.

I was also fascinated by storytelling—how films could move people, teach lessons, and spark conversations. That curiosity led me to study acting formally, and eventually, to a professional career. Loving what you do, I believe, is the foundation of excellence.

As a filmmaker and producer, how do you choose the stories you bring to life?ers from what I observe around me. I’m drawn to stories that educate, inspire, and provoke thought. Filmmaking goes beyond entertainment; it’s about impact and legacy.

I look for stories that are timeless, relatable, and emotionally engaging. Every project must feel meaningful and have the potential to positively influence its audience.

Do you feel pressure to constantly reinvent yourself?

Not at all. I don’t see my career as a race or competition. I work at my own pace and prioritize quality over quantity. Reinvention should come from personal growth, not external pressure.

I focus on improving my craft, exploring new genres, and choosing roles that challenge me. That way, each project feels authentic and purposeful.

How do you draw boundaries with intimacy scenes in Nollywood?

Acting is make-believe, but I have firm boundaries. I won’t do anything pornographic or expose myself in ways that make me uncomfortable.

That’s why reading scripts thoroughly is crucial—it allows me to assess what I’m comfortable with and communicate clearly.

Understanding the purpose of a scene helps me approach it professionally without compromising my values. Comfort and professionalism must go hand in hand.

Yetunde Barnabas sends reminder to postpartum mothers in sweet note

 Nollywood actress Yetunde Barnabas has sent a message to postpartum mothers.

On her Instagram page, she reminded them that they brought life into the world, but they’re strong, beautiful, radiant and deserving of every bit of self-love.

She admonished them not to forget to take care of themselves as well as the little one and to make sure to get every help they can, too.


“To all the amazing postpartum mamas out there, this is your reminder
You may have just brought life into this world, but you’re still YOU, strong, beautiful, radiant, and deserving of every bit of self-love.
Don’t forget to take care of yourself as well as the little one and make sure to get every help you can too”.


“My boubou-wearing days are back” – Kingsley Okonkwo and wife, Mildred, are expecting their 4th child

 


Sharing photos of herself wearing a baggy outfit, she expressed excitement at starting the year in such a way. Mildred said her boubou-wearing days are back.

“2026
What a way to start the year
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pleasant surprises
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IYKYK
anewsong”.

Looks like my boubou wearing days are back”.


Many flooded her comment section with congratulations 

“She’s been doing this to me for 13 years” – Davido cries out over his wife, Chioma’s constant habit as they vacation on Canoun Island (Video)

 Award-winning Nigerian Afrobeat singer Davido has lamented over his wife, Chioma’s constant habit.

In a video posted on his Instagram story, Davido was seen holding a plate of food as his wife approached him with her own plate. Rather than eating hers, Chioma took a spoon from Davido’s food.


Lamenting, Davido said Chioma has been doing this to him for 13 years.



“She’s been doing this to me for 13 years”.


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“I learnt how to speak like a Gen Alpha, it isn’t for the weak” – Caroline Hutchings laments as she shares sneak peek from her date with daughter

 


Caroline Hutchings is stepping into her Gen Alpha era. The former wife of billionaire Musa Danjuma, while sharing photos from her date night outing with her daughter, said she had learned how to speak Gen Alpha. 


She made it known that their generation isn’t for the weak. Caroline Danjuma date with daughter Speaking about motherhood, Caroline stated that no matter how busy she gets, she prioritises her time with her kids, especially with her daughter, who is her best friend. Praising her daughter for her intelligence, she revealed that her daughter never goes a term without winning awards. The proud mother said she learns a lot from them and can never go a day without spending quality time with her kids, both at home and abroad. Caroline Danjuma date with daughter “A sneak peek into my mother-daughter date day today. No matter how busy I get, I prioritise my time with my kids, especially with my daughter, who is my best friend. 


My young Queen, who is smart and intelligent, never goes a term without winning awards. I never go a day without spending quality time with my kids, both here and abroad. I learn a lot from my kids. I learn about love, loyalty, forgiveness, and trust. I learn to be young and bubbly all over again. I discover new sides to myself that I never knew existed. Such blessings. Today I learn how to speak like a Gen Alpha. Oh well, this school is not for the weak. It is such a blessing to be called ‘mom.’ I pray that every woman experiences this beautiful milestone. Have a fantastic week ahead. Cheers to all moms raising confident, smart future Queens. Blessings”.  

Ooni Of Ife’s Ex-Wife, Zaynab Otiti-Obanor Shares On ‘Why I Married SGF George Akume’

 Zaynab Otiti-Obanor, the former wife of the Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi, has opened up on the reasons behind her decision to marry the Secretary to the Government of the Federation (SGF) George Akume.

Zainab Obanor, now known as Zaynab Ngohemba, got married to Akume in a private ceremony in 2024.

Zaynab’s latest marriage, which was recently made public, has since generated interest and conversations on social media primarily due to her previous marriages with several prominent figures.


In a statement issued on Wednesday by her media aide, David Adeoye, and published by ThisDay, Zaynab described the marriage as a union “rooted in maturity, shared purpose and mutual understanding”.

She said the relationship represents the coming together of two individuals already committed to public service, rather than a shift in personal direction.

The statement read:

“It is a partnership shaped by maturity, shared purpose, and an understanding that personal stability strengthens public duty.“Their partnership represents the meeting of two lives already devoted to public purpose. It is not a reinvention of either individual, but a reinforcement of shared values: humility, discipline, empathy, and responsibility.”

“At a time when Nigerians increasingly demand integrity and humanity from those in leadership, this union sends a subtle but powerful signal that service is strongest when anchored in personal stability, shared values, and a long view of legacy.

“Together, they embody a leadership model that values empathy alongside authority, and service alongside structure. Their partnership underscores a simple truth: leaders who understand humanity govern better, and societies thrive when service is treated as a calling rather than a platform.”

Zaynab’s marriage to the Ooni of Ife, which took place in March 2016, ended in 2017 after 17 months.

G Herbo proposes To Taina Williams

 Soft Love, Loud Moment: G Herbo & Taina Williams Are Engaged

Some love stories don’t need spectacle — they need timing. And on the final night of the year, G Herbo chose exactly the right moment to make forever official with Taina Williams.

Under the Miami sky, surrounded by people who’ve watched their journey up close, Herb got on one knee and asked the woman who’s held him down through growth, chaos, healing, and joy to be his wife. No gimmicks. No extra. Just intention. And Taina said yes.

This wasn’t a surprise to those who’ve been paying attention.

G Herbo and Taina’s relationship has always lived in that quiet space between public and protected. They’ve loved out loud, but never recklessly. Built a family. Faced criticism. Chose each other anyway. Two children later, countless lessons learned, and a man clearly standing firmer in who he is — this proposal felt less like a question and more like a confirmation.

Witnesses say Herb spoke from the heart, reflecting on their evolution and the life they’ve built together. The music played, emotions rose, and when the ring appeared, the room felt it — this was real. The kind of moment that doesn’t need captions because it carries weight all on its own.

Taina, glowing and emotional, accepted with the same grace she’s shown throughout their journey. Not just a fiancée — a partner, a mother, a woman who grew alongside him instead of ahead of him or behind him.

Social media reacted instantly, but this wasn’t for the timeline. This was for legacy.

As the new year begins, G Herbo and Taina Williams step into a new chapter — not chasing perfection, but choosing commitment. The kind of love that matures. The kind that survives. The kind that knows when it’s time.

And this time, it was time. 💍✨




Photos; Tennis Royalty Venus Williams Is Married!

Following their Italian celebration in September, the tennis legend and her actor beau tied the knot in Florida this past weekend. It was a fun and fashion-filled week of events. Venus had her fellow legendary tennis star sister Serena as well as her other sisters, friends and family as she married Andrea Preti. We've got pictures.

 





 


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Doris Ogala who !!! pastor carries in with marriage to another lady

 “He Promised Marriage, Then Married Someone Else”: The Doris Ogala–Pastor Saga Is Bigger Than Gossip


When Nollywood actress Doris Ogala publicly called out Chris Okafor after he went ahead to marry another woman, many people reduced it to “relationship drama.” But let’s be honest — this isn’t just gist. It’s a story about promises, power, and emotional investment.



 According to her, this wasn’t a fling; it was years of commitment, expectation, and belief in a future that never came. Then suddenly, the man she thought she would marry is proposing to someone else. That kind of shock doesn’t just bruise ego — it shakes identity. “Time is an investment, and broken promises are emotional debts,” and for many women watching, that hit close to home.


Now, to be fair, there’s another side. Some people argue that no one is obligated to marry anyone, no matter what was said in the past. Feelings change, decisions evolve, and marriage is ultimately a personal choice. That’s true. But here’s where it gets uncomfortable: when influence, authority, and long-term promises are involved, the dynamics are no longer equal. This isn’t just about two adults dating — it’s about trust built over time, possibly under emotional or spiritual influence. And that’s why the public reaction has been so intense. Because beyond this specific case, it raises a wider question in Nigerian (and global) society: how accountable should people be for the expectations they create in others?


At the end of the day, this situation forces us to confront something deeper than gossip headlines. We live in a culture where people casually make life-altering promises — “I will marry you,” “wait for me,” “trust me” — without fully grasping the weight of those words. And when things fall apart, one person moves on, while the other is left rebuilding emotionally in public view. Maybe the real lesson here is this: “Not every promise is a plan, and not every relationship is heading where you think it is.” But then again, if words can shape someone’s life choices, shouldn’t they carry consequences too?


Block them for your peace

 


'Sign a prenup’— Online users insist love isn’t enough without financial protection

A recent conversation about prenuptial agreements has quietly exposed how differently people understand love, security, and responsibility. The argument was simple but unsettling: a prenup does not undermine love; it acknowledges reality. Life changes in ways no couple can fully predict — careers pause or accelerate, health shifts, priorities evolve, and people themselves grow into versions they did not foresee at the altar. Within that uncertainty, a carefully considered agreement was presented not as pessimism, but as preparation — an attempt to protect dignity if the future unfolds differently than hoped.



What made the discussion linger was its emphasis on fairness rather than fear. A prenup, it was argued, can protect the partner who steps back from paid work to raise children, the one who enters marriage with an existing business or assets, and, perhaps most importantly, the children who often bear the emotional cost of financial conflict. Another voice added that many people still equate financial planning with emotional doubt, when in reality, marriage demands more than affection alone. If two people cannot calmly discuss money, ownership, and worst-case scenarios while still deeply in love, the question may not be about trust — but about readiness. Perhaps the deeper reflection is this: can love be strong enough to include uncomfortable conversations, not because separation is expected, but because fairness is valued?


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Ur the main event - Davido praises wife Chioma

 


Matopeda Abiola King son Kaeto goes to CHURCH

 






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Rita Dominic Anosike wedding ring



 

“I Was Never a Rebound” — Yhemolee’s Ex, Bibi, Speaks on Betrayal, Therapy, and Moving On

“I Was Never a Rebound” — Yhemolee’s Ex, Bibi, Speaks on Betrayal, Therapy, and Moving On

video of Veekee James saying ladies she admire the most are those who don’t wait for their husbands’ money but feed the kids and pay the bills.

 video of Veekee James saying ladies she admire the most are those who don’t wait for their husbands’ money but feed the kids and pay the bills.